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LGBTQIA+

Can an a Agender person be more masculine?

ABCDEFG....theychangedthealphabetsong
ABCDEFG....theychangedthealphabetsong
11/25/25 4:59pm
I am a proud Agender/non-binary person, which means I identify with no gender at all, feeling a lack of gender. I use they/them pronouns, and have even changed my once feminine name to Noa. Although I feel that I have no gender, I also feel some sort of masculinity with looks, and titles, such as father/son/king, instead of wife/daughter/queen, and the gender neutral versions. so am I still agender? Or like is there a word for it?
LGBTQIA+

why does everyone assume that I am bisexual or even lesbian?

Dr.Freak86
Dr.Freak86
11/17/25 6:03pm
as a person who has been openly very straight, why does everyone i meet automatically assume that i like other women? yes, i am incredibly tomboyish and not feminine at all, but i don't really see how that would make me like women. like, sure, one of my friends saying that i am so straight that i "sound like a gay man" is one thing, and i can understand that at the very least because i have said some...very interesting things about fictional men. but i just don't get why random people will walk up to me and ask if i am lesbian.
LGBTQIA+

I am transgender. Should I go with Leo or Alex???

That_one_trans_kid
That_one_trans_kid
11/13/25 5:46pm
Ok, I would like to start off by saying that I lovvvveee both names. Leo is a really nice name, but the thing is I came out to everyone as Alex and I don't want to like...upset anyone? but I'm leaning more towards Leo. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DOOOOO!!! any advice???
LGBTQIA+

Am I actually Non binary?

WikiHowUser20251112195033
WikiHowUser20251112195033
11/04/25 7:11pm
For a while now I've been going under the label of "Non binary" and going by they/them, but I'm not sure if that's who I really am. I've been having a lot body dysmorphia, so I'm worried that I may be wrong. Usually, I feel comfortable with my label, but sometimes I like doing more feminine things. Please give some feedback, especially if you have experienced something similar.
LGBTQIA+

How do I find out if my (same-gender) bestie is queer?

KiwiFruit
KiwiFruit
11/03/25 6:09pm
I have a crush on my bff and I don't know if she is queer and it's very confusing because I want to ask her out but I don't want to ruin our friendship if she's straight. What do I do?
LGBTQIA+

How do I come out to my (unclear if supportive or not) dad and brothers?

Solangelo bi panik
Solangelo bi panik
10/24/25 5:13pm
I'm bisexual and out to my friends and my mom. I really want to tell my dad and my brothers (and my mom is trying to help, but... she doesn't get it at all...). I want to be publicly out to my family so I can get like stickers and pins and flags and stuff bi like christmas at least. However, my family has never really talked abt lgbtq+ unless I bring it up and then the conversation doesn't last very long. My brothers probably won't care and it'll be easy to like wave a flag in their face and be like "hey it's me! It's the bisexual flag btw!" but my dad... not so much. My mom has said that I shouldn't do a text because my dad needs a more clear message. I do agree with this but I'm stuck cuz the idea of telling him in person is scary. The best I can think of is a letter but I really don't want to be in the house when he reads it so placing it and finding a place to go would be kinda hard. Also my handwriting would probably be inelgible cuz I'd be paniking when I'd be writing it and he has bad eyesight so... help please?
LGBTQIA+

I took this test got possibly bi or pan. Oh and my parents don't know and idk how to come out to them

WikiBadgerWhisperer264
WikiBadgerWhisperer264
10/15/25 5:08pm
Yo, I have been calling myself queer for about almost a year, then yesterday my best gay guy friend and I were talking and he randomly says and I quote "You give me bi vibes." so I took this test got possibly bi or pan. But before I took a different test and got queer. Oh and my parents dont know and idk how to come out to them. Help plz. Crying inside
LGBTQIA+

How do you come out to your parents that you are a femboy?

Miloive
Miloive
10/13/25 4:36pm
I found out that I was a femboy 6 months ago and I wanted some girl clothing. I’ve been wanting to ask my parents for some but that would be weird. I wanted to come out but I don’t know how to. Help?
LGBTQIA+

How to get rid of homophobic bullies

Paedyn_Gray powerless
Paedyn_Gray powerless
10/06/25 4:43pm
I go to a Christian school and everyone has been saying really bad things about me and warning my friends to stay away from me cause I might turn to them and then my parents are very homophobic. How do I deal?
LGBTQIA+

I still don't get it am I gay or bi?

WikiDugongJumper705
WikiDugongJumper705
09/24/25 4:16pm
I'm transmasc, and I've always identified with the 'Achillean' label, or 'MLM', because I've always liked men/masculine-leaning people, but recently I have had a strange desire for women/feminine-leaning people, and I don't know how to explain it. I took the 'Am I Bisexual' test and it said I might be bi or queer, but I already knew that I wasn't straight, I don't have an answer here.