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I took this test got possibly bi or pan. Oh and my parents don't know and idk how to come out to them

WikiBadgerWhisperer264
WikiBadgerWhisperer264
10/15/25 5:08pm
Yo, I have been calling myself queer for about almost a year, then yesterday my best gay guy friend and I were talking and he randomly says and I quote "You give me bi vibes." so I took this test got possibly bi or pan. But before I took a different test and got queer. Oh and my parents dont know and idk how to come out to them. Help plz. Crying inside
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Nico Moloff
Nico Moloff
10/19/25 4:06am
Ok, so please don't go off of these quizzes to find out a big part of your identity. If you think you're bia or pan that's a different story. There's no easy way to come out to your parents, so my only advice for that is make sure it is safe. If it's not a safe situation for you to come out - DON'T. Your safety is important.
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