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Am I actually Non binary?

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WikiHowUser20251112195033
11/04/25 7:11pm
For a while now I've been going under the label of "Non binary" and going by they/them, but I'm not sure if that's who I really am. I've been having a lot body dysmorphia, so I'm worried that I may be wrong. Usually, I feel comfortable with my label, but sometimes I like doing more feminine things. Please give some feedback, especially if you have experienced something similar.
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Charlie Lusorfith
Charlie Lusorfith
11/27/25 12:02am
Hi! I have been using they/them for a while now. I was born as, Scout. She/Her. I want to go by Charlie now, and I might be he/them??? I don't know. Plz help meeeeee🥲
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That_one_trans_kid
That_one_trans_kid
11/12/25 11:45am
I can try to help.I have experienced so much dysphoria over the past...like 6 years, and have gone by SO MANY labels (gender-fluid, non binary, ect.) But in my case, it was because I am trans. In your case, if you like doing girly things, the pronouns don't matter. You can do whatever you want with whatever pronouns you want. In my opinion, go with whatever pronouns make you comfortable and keep doing the stuff you love.
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Charlie Lusorfith
Charlie Lusorfith
12/05/25 12:59am
Thank you. I also might be genderfluid now...??? IDKKKKKKKKKK I also got a girlfriend🙂 yay for meeeee
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