130 Risky Texts to Send Your Crush & Grab Their Attention

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Plus, advice on whether you should send a risky text

Co-authored by Bertha Isabel Crombet, PhD

Last Updated: November 16, 2025 References

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What’s a risky text?

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Risky Texts for Him

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For Her

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Cute

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Funny

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Sexy

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When to Send It

Picture this: it’s late at night, and you’re chatting with your crush. Suddenly, you feel tempted to send a risky text to spice up the conversation. But what exactly is a risky text? And should you even send them to begin with? If you’re weighing your options when it comes to risking it all for your crush via text, keep reading to learn more. We’ve also provided examples of risky texts that you can use as inspiration or steal altogether!

Top Riskiest Texts to Send Your Crush

“I can’t wait to touch you again.”
“What are you wearing right now?”
“Send me a selfie. I miss that gorgeous face.”
“If I asked you to come over… what would you say?”
“It’s so chilly tonight… if only I had a cuddle buddy…”
“So are we really just ‘hanging out’ or are you secretly in love with me?”

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What is a risky text?

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A risky text is a flirty message that can make or break a relationship. It’s risky in the sense that you’re not sure how the message will be received by your crush. Whether you’re complimenting them, flirting, or confessing your feelings, a risky text tests the boundaries of that relationship. In essence, a risky text usually reveals a vulnerable piece of information that the person on the receiving end didn’t know before.^{[1]
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- This tends to create anxiety for the sender of the risky text as they’re risking rejection or disapproval, even in a low-stakes situation.
- People may even type up a risky text, spend hours deciding whether to send it or not, and then end up panicking if and when they do.
- From a positive standpoint, risky texts can confirm the other person’s romantic interest and take the relationship to the next level. Of course, it can also end up damaging the existing relationship if your crush doesn’t engage or flirt back.

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Risky Texts to Send Him

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Let your guy crush know that you’re into him with these fun and flirty texts. Sending your crush a risky text can be scary, sure, but do you know what’s scarier? Not making a move and missing out on what could be a beautiful thing! You can start subtle or lay it on thick, compliment him, ask him suggestive questions, or simply flirt up a storm through the screen. Here’s some flirty text inspo for you to send to the special man in your life:^{[2]
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- “I have nothing new to say, but I really wanted to talk to you.”
- “If I asked you to come over… what would you say?”
- “I had so much fun at the movies last night. I love sitting in the dark close to you.”
- “What emoji reminds you of me?”
- “How many times have you thought about me today? Ballpark figure?”
- “If you tell me a secret, I’ll tell you one.”
- “It’s so chilly tonight… if only I had a cuddle buddy…”
- “Can you give me one of your hoodies so I can wear it to sleep?”
- “I’m always smiling from ear to ear when I talk to you.”
- “So, when are you gonna take me on a date?”
- “You get dinner. I’ll get dessert. (I’m dessert.)”
- “You know, if you’re waiting for the green light to kiss me… here it is.”
- “I was thinking of wearing a mini dress tonight. What do you think?”
- “I wish I could bottle your natural smell.”
- “My day was meh. Come over and cheer me up.”
- “Why aren’t you right here with me right now?”
- “So are we really just ‘hanging out’ or are you secretly in love with me?”
- “You’re pretty much my dream guy, but don’t let it go to your head.”
- “What’s your biggest regret? Aside from not meeting me earlier.”
- “Do you like me better in a little skirt or tight jeans?”
- “Oh, so this is what butterflies feel like? Hm… interesting.”
- “You may be out of sight, but you’re never out of my mind.”
- “You want me to rub your shoulders later?”
- “You’re so distracting. I can’t get anything done, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.”
- “I can’t stop smiling, thinking about last night.”
- “We have so much chemistry, it’s insane.”
- “Is it hard being the most gorgeous guy in the room?”

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Risky Texts to Send Her

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Compliment and woo her with these potentially risky texts. Girls love to be pursued, so don’t be afraid to risk it all and tell her how pretty, funny, and nice you think she is. Pay her a thoughtful compliment, let her know your intentions to date her, or drop hints that you’re really into her. If you need help figuring out how, here are some ideas:^{[3]
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- “I can’t wait to touch you again.”
- “Speaking to you makes me nervous, so I’m just going to have to imagine you naked.”
- “What are you wearing right now?”
- “Send me a selfie. I miss that gorgeous face.”
- “I’m pretty sure you have the perfect body— has anyone ever told you that?”
- “Stop being so much funnier and cuter than me!”
- “Want a foot massage later?”
- “I’m not trying to ruin our friendship by kissing you, but also, I want to ruin it.”
- “I don’t think I’ll ever get sick of you.”
- “I like you. What are you going to do about it?”
- “You make my heart race and my mind wander...”
- “Am I addicted to you? Maybe.”
- “I’m not a photographer, but I can picture us together.”
- “I really want to explore you.”
- “Seeing your name pop up on my phone makes me smile so hard.”
- “I woke up thinking about you. I also went to bed thinking about you. Hm.”
- “Did you know that you’re incredibly sexy?”
- “If you’re not busy later, I was hoping to make out with you. Hope that’s cool.”
- “I had a dream about you last night. It was R-rated.”
- “You are inspiring some very sexy thoughts, by the way.”
- “You know, my love language is physical touch, and I’d love to chat.”
- “You're officially on my mind more than food. That's saying something.”
- “Got any exciting plans for today? (Besides talking to me, obviously.)”
- “Have you been telling your friends about me?”
- “I’m craving you right now.”
- “Confession: every song reminds me of you.”
- “You’re my number 1, and there isn’t even a number 2.”

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Cute Risky Texts

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Make your crush blush with these cute risky texts. While you may want to keep your cards close in these initial crush stages, it won’t kill you to send your crush a cute message hinting at your feelings. Plus, it could help your budding love story blossom! Let them know how adorable they are, that you’re thinking about them, or that you can’t wait to kiss them. Cute can still be risky—and these texts prove it:^{[4]
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- “Call me whenever. I miss your voice.”
- “My day isn't complete without talking to you.”
- “Do you have any plans for the night? Can I be it?”
- “You’re on my mind more often than not.”
- “I didn't believe in love at first sight until I saw you.”
- “All the love songs on my playlist remind me of you.”
- “You check every single one of my boxes.”
- “I love how you make me feel.”
- “Can I see you again soon, please?“
- “You’re too good to be true. What’s the catch?”
- “I have a very important question: when can I take you out?”
- “I hope you were thinking about me all day, ‘cause I was thinking about you.”
- “I love that I can talk to you about anything.”
- “Wish you were here as I drift off to sleep.”
- “You’re one in a million. Seriously.”
- “This sunset is gorgeous, but not as gorgeous as you.”
- “Daydreaming about you is my favorite thing.”
- “Are you sure you’re real?”
- “You’re one of the most interesting people I’ve ever met.”
- “Time to wake up and start another beautiful day with you. Can’t wait.”
- “You’re the only one for me.”
- “Sending you kisses and hugs, but wishing I could give them to you in person.”
- “You’re always the reason I wake up with a smile on my face.”
- “Hoping your morning is as radiant as you are.”
- “I dreamt of you all night long.”
- “The best part of my day is you.”
- “I wish I were there to hit the snooze button with you.”
- “I want your face to be the last thing I see at night and the first thing I see in the morning.”
- “Cuddling with you right now would be perfect.”
- “I wish we didn’t have to work, so we could spend the entire day together.”

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Funny Risky Texs

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Crack up your crush by sending a funny risky text. Laughing with your significant other in person is ideal, but doing it over a screen will do just fine! Use funny pick-up lines, compliment them in a cheesy way, or reference pop culture to be punny. They won’t be able to resist a smile—or you!^{[5]
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- “If you were a vegetable, you’d be a cutecumber.”
- “I never believed in love at first sight until I saw your profile picture.”
- “Hey, this is me making the first move. (Your turn.)”
- “In case you’re wondering, I’m still single and ready to mingle with you.”
- “Thin-crust or deep-dish? Answer correctly and we’ll get married.”
- “This isn’t me flirting. This is me simply being extra friendly to someone who is extra attractive.”
- “Quick, what's something I can text you right now to make you fall in love with me?”
- “I’m not a scientist, but I think we would have really great chemistry.”
- “Tell me your celebrity crush, and why he looks just like me.”
- “What do you prefer? Big spoon or little spoon?”
- “Are you Siri? Because you autocomplete me.”
- “Wanna be Minecraft without the craft?”
- “Are you a Mariah Carey song? Because All I Want for Christmas Is You.”
- “Aren't you worried about global warming? Because you're making it hot in here.”
- “If you were a triangle, you'd be acute one.”
- “Are you a loan? You've got my interest.”
- “Is your dad a boxer? Because you're a knockout!”
- “You know, I'm actually terrible at flirting. How about you try to pick me up instead?”
- “Do you have Instagram? My parents always told me to follow my dreams.”
- “Angels should be in heaven. How'd you escape?”
- “If you and I were socks, we'd make a great pair.”
- “Well, here I am! What are your other two wishes?”
- “If you were words on a page, you'd be fine print.”

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Sexy Risky Texts

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Turn the heat up by sending one of these frisky and risky texts. If you want to leave a sexy impression, don’t be afraid to use your words to paint a hot and steamy picture. Tell your crush what you’re wearing, how excited you are to see them, or pay them the kind of compliment that is sure to make them blush. Feel free to steal any of the following lines:^{[6]
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- “No, I won’t send you any nudes, you pervert! (Unless you want them?)”
- “If you let me borrow a kiss, I promise I'll give it right back.”
- “You must be my Tinderella because I’m going to make that dress vanish at midnight.”
- “I was feeling off today, but you just totally turned me on.”
- “You look great in the outfit you were wearing last night, but I bet you’d look even better in your birthday suit.”
- “Are you a pie? Because I’d like a piece of you.”
- “If I buy you dinner, will you be dessert?”
- “If I were a judge, I’d sentence you to my bed.”
- “I’m adding you to my to-do list. Can I check you off tonight?”
- “I’ll show you my tan lines if you’ll show me yours.”
- “Are your eyes trying to strip me of my clothes?!”
- “I’ve been super on top of things lately. Would you like to be one of them?”
- “Let’s make a deal: I’ll cook you dinner if you cook me breakfast.”
- “I love my bed, but I’d rather be in yours.”
- “Is your car battery dead? Because I’d like to jump you right now.”
- “Aside from being extremely sexy, what other hobbies do you have?”
- “They say that kissing is a language of love, so would you mind starting a conversation with me later?”
- “My lips are like Skittles. Wanna taste the rainbow later?”
- “Stop thinking about me naked! Sheesh.”
- “Is your body a map? Because I love to travel.”
- “If I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?”
- “Are you Little Caesars? Because you’re hot and I’m ready.”
- “Your body is 60 percent water…and I’m thirsty.”

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Should you send the risky text?

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Consider your relationship and your crush’s potential reaction. Sending your crush a risky text is exactly as advertised—risky. If you’re friends with your crush, hitting send on that uber flirty text can feel nerve-wrecking as you’re putting yourself out there and hoping for the best. Before you hit send, consider how a rejection from them might affect the friendship.^{[7]
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- Do you think the friendship could still be salvaged even if they’re not into you romantically? If yes, hit send. Even if the answer to that question is no, figure out if it’s still worth it to you just to shoot your shot.
  - If you think sending that risky text would make things too awkward between you and you truly value the friendship, don’t send it.
- Do you think they have feelings for you, too? If this is a clear will-they-won’t-they situation where everyone can tell that you two are into each other, then you have very little to lose since their interest in you is all but confirmed. Hooray! Send that risky text.
  - If you’re not sure how they feel about you or you think they may be leaning more toward friendship than romance, don’t send it.
- Do you think you’ll be able to handle rejection well? If you know that you’re resilient and can recover from a less-than-enthusiastic response from your crush, send that text!
  - If you’ve been known to spiral at the slightest inconvenience or if you’re afraid that this rejection would seriously ding your self-esteem, maybe don’t send that risky text.