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Telephone is a classic icebreaker and party game. It's easy to set up and a lot of fun to play. You and your friends will pick a word or phrase, pass it on by whispering it to someone next to you, and have fun seeing how much it changed during the game. All you will need to play is a couple of friends, a word or phrase, and a quiet whisper, and we’ll show you the rest, including fun variations and example phrases to get you started, plus tips from games expert Jonathan Wells.
Telephone Game Rules
Games expert Jonathan Wells explains the basics of the Telephone Game:
- Have players stand in a line or circle.
- The first player whispers a fun, short phrase one time—no repeating.
- Each player whispers the message to the next person around the circle or down the line.
- Reveal the original message and enjoy how it changed along the way.
Steps
Playing the Telephone Game
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Gather 3+ people and sit in a line or a circle. Telephone needs at least 3 players, but it works best with at least 5. You can never have too many, though! Once you’ve gathered all the players, Wells recommends telling everyone to sit or stand in a circle or a line.[1] Each person should be close enough to the person next to them that they can lean over and whisper in their ear.[2]
- “Circles work best for big groups [while] lines work great for controlled play,” says Wells.[3]
Meet the wikiHow Expert
Jonathan Wells is a games expert and the founder of Dig The Games, an online platform that aims to share the joys of playing games and friendly competition with a wider audience.
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Choose a secret phrase and whisper it to the person next to you. Wells says to choose the first player, then have them think of a fun, short phrase. He says you can also give them a phrase if that’s easier.[4] Have them whisper the phrase to the person next to them.
- Wells adds that each player should only whisper the word once—”no repeating, no re-whispering.”[5]
- “Keep phrases short, silly, and filled with image-heavy words,” advises Wells. He shares this example: “The purple hippo packed popcorn for the picnic.”[6]
- Other examples might be words like “ostrich” or “paperboy.” Or, you might choose a short phrase like “I want some French toast,” or, “Do you want a new doggy?”
- If this is for school, consider using one of the vocabulary words that you are studying. You can also use a term from a science class.
- If you’re playing with an older crowd, you might make the word or phrase more complicated.
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Continue whispering the word until everyone has heard it. “The message continues whisper-to-whisper around the circle or down the line,” says Wells.[7] Each person should repeat what they think they heard to the person next to them. This is done until the last person in the line or circle is told the word.[8]
- Do your best to repeat what you heard, but remember that part of the fun is seeing how the word changes down the line!
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Reveal the original word once everyone has been whispered to. Wells says that once the last person hears the word or phrase, they say what they heard out loud to the group so everyone can hear. Then, the first person reveals the original word or phrase. Wells adds that part of the fun is seeing “how bizarrely it changed along the way.”[9]
- Every player can pitch in and say what they heard to try to find out where the group changed it.
Community Q&A
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QuestionWhat if we went down the line and the word never changed?
Community AnswerJust start the game over again. If this keeps persisting, mix up the order of the players. Also, make the word or phrase more difficult. -
QuestionHow do people cheat in telephone?
Community AnswerThey can change the word on purpose or they can try to hear what the first person whispers. -
QuestionSo isn't this quite similar to Chinese whispers?
Community AnswerYes, they are the same game given different names. I believe that Chinese whispers is Commonwealth English, while the Telephone Game is American English.
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References
- ↑ Jonathan Wells. Games Expert. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://sites.krieger.jhu.edu/mnf/files/2023/03/K-BF-3-GAME.pdf
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- ↑ https://www.mightybook.com/PDF-Lessons/Telephone_Game_Lesson_Plan.pdf
- ↑ Jonathan Wells. Games Expert. Expert Interview
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- ↑ https://youthgroupgames.org/games/paper-telephone/
- ↑ Jonathan Wells. Games Expert. Expert Interview
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About This Article
To play the telephone game, start by having everyone stand in a line, making sure people are far enough apart that they can’t overhear other players. Next, have the starting player think of an uncommon word, like planetarium or dictionary, and whisper it into the ear of the person standing next to them. Then, continue having people listen to the word and whisper it to the next player until everyone has heard it. Finally, see what everybody thinks they heard to see how the word changed as it went down the “telephone line.” To learn how to play telephone in teams, scroll down!
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