Virgo and Virgo Compatibility: Love, Sex, and More

Wondering if two practical and caring Virgos can make it work in a relationship? Luckily, these two are super compatible and make an excellent team. Read on for everything you need to know about a relationship between two hardworking Virgos, including their emotional and sexual compatibility, potential for marriage, and ways they can make their bond even stronger. We also interviewed astrologers for helpful insights into Virgos' approach to relationships.

Are Virgos compatible with Virgos?

Astrologer Haley Delgado says Virgos are compatible with each other platonically and romantically. They’re quick-witted, goal-oriented, and logical, so they can absolutely rely on each other and form an amazing relationship. That said, they can be overly critical, so they need to communicate and set clear boundaries.

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Virgo and Virgo Relationship Compatibility

This pair is a perfect match! Romantically, two Virgos can absolutely work, according to Delgado.^{[1]
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Expert Interview} Virgos are goal-oriented and logical people—they're usually looking for a partner who's consistent and like-minded, which makes a fellow Virgo an amazing choice.^{[2]
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Research source} As partners, they'll be attentive to each other's needs and happy to serve one another (once they let their guard down, that is). If they push themselves to open up and get vulnerable, this relationship will be unstoppable.
- Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and information. In relationships, Virgos are excellent communicators and attentive to detail (such as what will truly make their partner happy).
- Reader Poll: We asked 1551 wikiHow readers which trait they believe Virgos find most attractive, and 55% said intelligence. [Take Poll] This aligns with their planetary ruler and analytical nature.
Meet the wikiHow Experts

Haley Delgado is an astrologer specializing in Western, Synastry, Esoteric, Asteroid, and Starseed astrology. With over 8 years of experience, she guides her clients on a journey of empowerment and cosmic alignment.

Stina Garbis is a psychic astrologer and the owner of Psychic Stina, a psychic business based in Corvallis, Oregon. She specializes in personal tarot card readings and astrological readings, with over 30 years of experience.

Aliza Kelly is an astrologer and spiritual coach based in New York City. Her biweekly columns are published in The Cut and Marie Claire magazines, and she also hosts a podcast called Horoscope Weekly.

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Emotional Compatibility

It might take some time for these two to open up. Virgos often struggle to be vulnerable, so they need to know someone well before they let their guard down. Two Virgos will understand each other's need to take things slow, and their relationship will move at a very authentic pace. Once they get to know each other, they'll realize just how caring and loving their partner really is.^{[3]
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- Virgos are mutable signs, meaning they're open to changing their mind and listening to their partner's perspective.

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Sexual Compatibility

These two enjoy experimenting and trying new things in the bedroom. Virgos may be rather practical and reserved in their day-to-day life, but they often possess a secret, uninhibited side behind closed doors. As a caring and attentive sign, a Virgo will want to please their partner first and foremost. Ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, two Virgos will also have no problem talking openly about their needs and fantasies.^{[4]
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- Virgo is one of the three earth signs, which are known for being sensual and relaxed.

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Communication Compatibility

They may need to work on being less critical of each other. Virgos are skilled communicators, but they're also often perfectionists. According to psychic astrologer Stina Garbis, “Virgos pride themselves on being the critic and being right.”^{[5]
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Expert Interview} They also want to show up as the best version of themselves, says astrologer and spiritual coach Aliza Kelly.^{[6]
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Expert Interview} Potential problems in their relationship include criticizing each other, not letting small things go, and not working out issues quickly and effectively, according to Delgado.^{[7]
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- “Being clear about expectations and taking time before committing” can help minimize these issues, especially since “Earth signs like to settle their feet before taking the next step,” says Delgado.^{[8]
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- To avoid getting too critical, Virgos might benefit from practicing gratitude. Writing down all the things they love about their partner or their relationship will help them stop overthinking and unnecessarily critiquing.

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Trust Compatibility

Virgos are known for being loyal and honest. Garbis says that Virgos like honesty and availability, “and they love to pitch in to help” their partner when needed.^{[9]
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Expert Interview} Their shared values will help them navigate a committed relationship fairly easily, and it's unlikely that either partner will struggle with infidelity.
- As mutable signs, it's possible Virgo's feelings might change or waver at a moment's notice. To maintain trust, they'll have to be direct and open about how they're really feeling.

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Marriage Compatibility

They make great spouses if they can temper their desire to criticize. Virgo and Virgo marriages can be amazing, long-term relationships. But according to Kelly, Virgos' desire to constantly improve their relationship can cause them to get in their head about its shortcomings.^{[10]
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Expert Interview} Virgos need to work hard to accept each other's flaws and avoid criticizing each other (or themselves) excessively. If they can overcome their perfectionism and pride, and remain honest and open, they'll be a loving pair till death do they part!
- “This is one of those relationships where sovereignty is valued,” says Delgado. If both of their habits align with the other's preferred way of getting things done, they can absolutely rely on each other and make things work.^{[11]
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Friendship Compatibility

Virgo and Virgo friends are as thick as thieves. Platonically, Virgos tend to run with other Virgos, says Delgado. She notes that when these signs are together, their quick wit is remarkable!^{[12]
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Expert Interview} There's nothing a Virgo likes better than finding a friend who shares their interests, their sense of loyalty, and their practical way of thinking. As with romantic relationships, Virgos should recognize when they're focusing too much on trying to make everything “just so.”^{[13]
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- To enjoy your friendship, remember to compromise and not be too blunt, unless your Virgo friend specifically asks for your opinion.
- Also, remember to silence your inner critic and give yourself some grace. The success of your friendship doesn't rest on you alone!

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Virgo and Virgo Relationships: Pros & Cons

Virgos value stability in romance, and they'll find just that with another Virgo. They'll understand each other's need to take things slow and will be happy to do just about anything to make their partner happy. Since they share solid communication skills, they'll be able to work through conflict gracefully (as long as they keep their inner critic in control). Together, they'll accomplish their goals and give each other the consistency they need.^{[14]
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This pair might struggle if they place too much value on perfection. Virgos notice all the details, which makes them prone to noticing and critiquing everything that's going wrong in their relationship. To make things work, they'll have to choose their battles wisely and let the small stuff slide. If they do that, they'll remember why they fell in love with their partner in the first place.^{[15]
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