What Does Achillean Mean?

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Explore the origin and history of this sexuality vocab word

Co-authored by Mira Lazine and Luke Smith, MFA

Last Updated: May 24, 2025 Fact Checked

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Definition

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Origin & History of “Achillean”

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Achillean vs. Gay

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Achillean Flag

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Related Terms

You’ve probably heard terms like “gay” and “bisexual” used to describe men who are attracted to other men (and others), but you may not be familiar with the term “Achillean.” While not a new term, it is newly popular, and is used simply to refer to any male-identifying person who’s attracted to other male-identifying people.^{[1]
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"Achillean" Overview

“Achillean” is a word used to describe male-identifying people who are attracted to other male-identifying people, and is derived from the queer-coded Greek hero Achilles.^{[2]
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Expert Interview} This term may include those who are gay, bisexual, pansexual, and others.

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Achillean Definition

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“Achillean” is a term to describe men who are attracted to men. The term is popular on social media and in fandom spaces, and is often used to refer to male-identifying people or characters who have attraction to other male-identifying people, be they cisgendered, trans, nonbinary, or of another gender identity.^{[3]
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- Example: “I like men, but I prefer to call myself Achillean rather than gay.”
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Achillean may also simply mean “like Achilles.” Literally, “Achillean” just means “similar to Achilles.” Someone may use “Achillean” to describe someone or something that shares qualities with the Greek hero Achilles, like masculinity, bravery, strength, or any number of other traits.
- Example: “The way you fought off those muggers was very Achillean.”

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Origin & History of “Achillean”

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Achilles was a queer-coded Greek hero. In Homer’s Iliad, Achilles shares a close bond with another male Greek figure, Patroclus. Whether or not the two were gay is hotly debated, but many scholars agree that the relationship may be read in any number of ways as queer, at least, and so the two have become gay icons of sorts in contemporary pop culture, hence the rise of “Achillean” as a term.^{[4]
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- In 1883, the scholar John Addington Symonds used the term “Achilleian friendship” to describe an affectionate masculine relationship, similar to that of Achilles and Patroclus.^{[5]
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- Scholar A.C. Hamilton also uses the term in his article “Spenser’s Treatment of Myth.”^{[6]
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- Achilles’ relationship with Patroclus was also popularized and speculated in the popular contemporary novel The Song of Achilles^{[7]
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Achillean is likely a spinoff term of “Sapphic.” “Sapphic” is a more popular term used to describe women who are attracted to women^{[8]
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Expert Interview}, or something that has lesbian or lesbian-identifying qualities. Sappho, for whom the term is named, was a Greek poet from the island of Lesbos who often wrote about her desire for women.^{[9]
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- “Achillean” was coined as a masculine complement to “Sapphic,” using the legendary male hero as a root word.^{[10]
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Achillean vs. Gay

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“Achillean” is said to be distinct from the word “gay.” Defined loosely, “gay” refers to anyone who experiences attraction exclusively to those that are of the same gender. “Achillean,” on the other hand, refers more exclusively to male-identifying people who are attracted to other male-identifying people, and who also may be attracted to non-male-identifying people.
- For example, a woman who is a lesbian might be described as gay, but would not be described as Achillean.
- Further, a man who is attracted to both men and women might be said to be Achillean or bisexual, but not strictly gay.
- That said, many use “gay” to simply mean someone attracted to their own gender, and may be attracted to other genders, as well.

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Achillean Flag

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The Achillean flag features a green carnation on a striped background. The green carnation is a queer symbol popularized by novelist Oscar Wilde and worn by those attracted to men.^{[11]
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Research source} The blue of the flag is said to represent masculinity, while the off-white is said to represent joy.^{[12]
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- The flag was likely designed by a Tumblr user named pridenpositivity, and was soon after redesigned by a DeviantArt user named Pride-Flags.

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Related Terms

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MLM MLM is short for “men loving men,” and is used to refer to any male-identifying person who is attracted to other male-identifying persons.
- Similar terms include Apollonian, after Apollo, or Wildean, after Oscar Wilde.
This is short for “same-gender loving,” and is primarily used by African American people to describe an attraction to one’s own gender. It was coined by Cleo Manago, an activist, in the ‘90s as an alternative to other terms that are sometimes seen as Eurocentric.^{[13]
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Bisexual Bisexual is a term that describes anyone attracted to more than one gender.^{[14]
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Research source} Someone who is bisexual may also be Achillean if they themselves identify as a man and are attracted to male-identifying people.
- Similarly, someone who is pansexual is attracted to people of any or all genders.