How to Make a Biodata for Marriage: Easy Step-by-Step Guide

Biodata Profile Expert Ayushi Mathur explains what marriage biodata is and what to include

Co-authored by Ayushi Mathur and Elaine Heredia, BA

Last Updated: February 2, 2026 Fact Checked

• How to Write a Biodata
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• Biodata Writing Tips
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• When to Write a Biodata
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• Biodata Benefits
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• Is biodata still important in India?
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• Template
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A marriage biodata is a short document containing the most important information you need to know about someone to decide if you might make a good match. It's traditionally used by Indian Muslims and Hindus, but people from other cultures can write biodatas for dating, as well! Keep reading to learn how to write a marriage biodata, whether you're Hindu or Muslim man or woman. We'll also provide helpful tips for crafting a personalized biodata, deciding when to write a biodata, and the benefits of having one, with advice from professional matchmakers and photographers.

Pro Tips for Writing Matrimonial Biodata

Biodata Profile Expert Ayushi Mathur says marriage biodata is like a resume for people seeking an arranged marriage. Your biodata should be honest and clear about who you are, so you get a good match. Include information like your age, height, personal preferences, educational background, family, and career history.

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How to Write Marriage Biodata

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   Fill out your personal details. The biggest section of a traditional marriage biodata is your personal details. This is where you'll share information about yourself that your potential partner needs to know to find out if you're compatible. Your potential partner will want to know your date of birth, height, weight, place of birth, and religion. If they're Indian, they may also want to know your gotra (family name) and whether you're a Manglik (a person born under the rule of Mars who, according to tradition, may be more likely to cause strife in a marriage). Below is a full list of personal information you may decide to share.

   • Name
   • Date of birth
   • Time of birth
   • Astrological sign
   • Religion
   • Diet (e.g., vegetarian or vegan)
   • Gotra (family name)
   • Manglik status
   • Birthplace
   • Height
   • Weight
   • Complexion
   • Blood type
   • Education (highest level)
   • Occupation

   Meet the wikiHow Experts

   Ayushi Mathur is a relationship coach and biodata profile expert based in Delhi, India. She holds multiple advanced certifications, including Senior Certified Professional Coach (SCPC) and Gestalt Certified Associate.

   Jaskaran Singh is a dating and relationship coach based in India.

   Louie Felix is a matchmaker and dating coach, and the founder and CEO of Matchmaking VIP. He has almost 16 years of experience.

   Shana Tibi is a certified professional matchmaker and founder of Curated Connections. She specializes in creating curated dates.
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   Share details about your family. Family is extremely important in Indian culture. Traditionally, parents in India arrange and approve their children's marriages. Mathur says a potential partner might want to know who your parents are and their occupations. This information will help them determine if you come from what they consider to be a "good family." Here are some details you may want to share in the "Family" section of your biodata.

   • Father's name
   • Mother's name
   • Father's occupation
   • Mother's occupation
   • Number of sisters and whether they're married or unmarried
   • Number of brothers and whether they're married or unmarried
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   Write an "About Me" paragraph. The "About Me" paragraph is where you can let your personality shine through! In 1-4 brief sentences, describe your personality traits, hobbies, and ambitions. The end of the paragraph can also be a good place to mention specific traits you want to see in your future spouse. Below are some examples of how to write the "About Me" section of your biodata.

   • I'm a fun person who enjoys traveling and experiencing new sights and sounds. I also love animals and being out in nature. Family and cultural traditions are very important to me, but I'm also eager to start my own family and make our own traditions.
   • I belong to a good family of engineers. I'm open-minded and always look for the silver lining, no matter how dark things get. My hobbies are reading, watercolors, and watching documentaries.
   • I'm a person who loves learning new things and trying new skills. I'm great at building computers and am a whiz at making tea. I'm looking for someone my age to share deep conversations and good times with.
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   List your contact information. If you want, you can use your biodata to let your potential match know how to get in touch with you! Include details such as a phone number they can use to call or text you, an email address, and your residential address.
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   Include a clear photo of yourself. A picture is worth a thousand words, so attach a great photo of yourself to your marriage biodata! Dating coach Jaskaran Singh says the picture needs to be recent (less than 5 years old). It's up to you and your matchmaker if you want to provide a headshot only or a full body photo. According to photographer Jessica McKnight, "good lighting is important," so take the photo in an area with lots of natural light. She also advises looking at portraits of people to find a pose you like and mimic it.

   • For women: Wear makeup to enhance your best features.
   • For both women and men: Wear your best clothes and jewelry, and groom yourself before taking the photo. Put effort into your appearance to show your future matches that you have self-respect and good taste!
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Tips for Writing a Biodata for Marriage

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   Share only what you're comfortable with sharing. Some biodata forms ask for sensitive information, like weight and blood type. If you're not comfortable sharing certain details with someone who's basically still a stranger, it's perfectly okay to keep them to yourself! You can always wait until you get serious with someone before revealing anything you consider intimate about your body or background.
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   Be honest. We understand that you want to put your best foot forward, but trying to hide information about yourself won't benefit you or your potential match. This may lead to you telling more lies to cover up the first ones, which can create a disconnect between you and your match, and hurt your self-esteem. Instead, focus on sharing your education, career achievements, and other accomplishments, without being too boastful or humble.

   • Singh says it’s especially important to be honest about basics like career, income, age, and height.
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   Check spelling and grammar. For some people, bad spelling and incorrect grammar are major turn-offs in a relationship. Look over your biodata answers carefully for errors before submitting them, especially if you want to attract someone intellectual or academic.

   • Use a free automatic spelling and grammar checker like Grammarly or Hemingway Editor!
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When to Write a Marriage Biodata

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   Fill out a marriage biodata for your matchmaker. Matchmakers in Indian cultural circles often use marriage biodatas to help them find potential matches for their clients. You may decide to use a matchmaker on your own, or your parents may hire one for you. It may sound traditional or old-fashioned, but many people think it's faster and easier to find a compatible wife or husband this way than it is to date randomly!

   • Dating coach and matchmaker Louie Felix reminds people who hire a matchmaker that "you're never going to find anybody who's 100% of what you're looking for." So keep an open mind, especially if your matchmaker thinks they've found someone who will be a good fit for you, despite your differences!
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   Create a biodata for a dating website. Indian dating websites and apps like Shaadi.com, GoForDesi.com, and Aisle ask you to fill out a detailed biodata before setting up your profile. Mathur says this helps the site's matchmakers find matches for you, and also helps other users decide if they're interested in exploring a relationship with you.
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   Make a marriage biodata for personal use. You can write a marriage biodata and use it on dates, without you having to consult a matchmaker or create an online dating profile! Consider letting your date know you want to exchange biodatas ahead of time, though. That way, they can decide if they're up for a more traditional dating experience.
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Benefits of Creating a Marriage Biodata

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   A marriage biodata helps you find a partner who's serious about marriage. Dating can be fun, but it can also feel frustrating and time-consuming when you're looking for a long-term relationship. According to certified professional matchmaker Shana Tibi, "when people contact a matchmaker, it's usually because they are not meeting the kinds of people they want to meet online, or they might be tired of [online dating]. And so, they want to turn to someone else, a matchmaker, an expert in the field, to connect them." A biodata helps your matchmaker find potential marriage partners, so you can stop wasting your time with short-term flings.

   • Singh says biodata basically functions as a filter system–it allows the user to get to know you a little bit before deciding if they want to meet or not.
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   A marriage biodata sets you up for honest communication. A biodata reveals all the most important details about yourself from the very beginning of your relationship, so there are no secrets between you and your match. Mathur says this sets a good foundation for honest communication in other aspects of your relationship, too. It also helps you be up front with your match if there's something in their biodata you have questions about or don't think will be compatible.
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   A marriage biodata helps you embrace cultural values and traditions. Marriage, family, and interdependence are all extremely important values in Indian culture. Filling out a biodata for your matchmaker, family, or dates is one of the easiest ways to find a life partner whose values and traditions align with yours.

   • “The biodata is mostly for the matchmaker, parents, or relatives,” Singh notes. It helps them figure out if the connection is logical and practical. It’s an important tool because the families have to meet first, and they look at the biodata beforehand.
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Is biodata still important in India?

1. Yes, biodata is crucial if you’re seriously looking for marriage in India. Singh says the majority of India still believes in biodata and arranged marriages that are based on logic, but the Western idea of marrying for love has been adopted in some urban areas. He says sometimes people who believe in marriages based on love often reject arranged marriages, even when the match is a solid one.

   • Singh says there are three different types of connections: those based on logic, love and lust. “This has nothing to do with India–this is how men and women fall in love and have a successful marriage,” he says.
   • Logic is the practical connection based on belief systems, goals, values, and dreams. “It's more about compatibility and friendship,” Singh explains. He says arranged marriages are fully based on logic.
   • Love is the connection of the heart–do you really care about that person? It’s the romantic feelings beyond just sharing the same goals and dreams.
   • Lust is the physical chemistry, sexual tension, and attraction that you feel.

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Marriage Biodata Template

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   Personal Details
   
   Name: Padma Gupta
   Date of birth: 05-22-1998
   Time of birth: 10:01 PM
   Astrological sign: Mithuna (Gemini)
   Religion: Hindu
   Diet: Vegetarian
   Gotra: Gautama
   Manglik: No
   Birthplace: New Jersey, NY
   Height: 5 ft 6 in
   Weight: 120 lb (54 kg)
   Complexion: Fair
   Blood type: AB+
   Education: Master of Laws (LL.M.) from Seton Hall Law School
   Occupation: Attorney
   
   Family Details
   
   Father's name: Arjun Gupta
   Mother's name: Diya Gupta
   Father's occupation: Lawyer
   Mother's occupation: Pediatrician
   Number of sisters and whether they're married or unmarried: 3 (2 married)
   Number of brothers and whether they're married or unmarried: 0
   
   About Me I'm a go-getter and a trendsetter. I'm dedicated to my career and to helping people, but I'm also interested in starting a family. My favorite ways to relax are cooking and watching B-rated movies.
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