Yaoi and boys' love manga and anime are built on semes and ukes. Iykyk, but if you don't know, think of it this way: Semes are dominant, while ukes are more submissive, and sekes are somewhere in between. Which are you?
Answer a few quick questions about your thoughts on love and romance, and we'll tell you which role you'd take!
Questions Overview
- I approach them and ask them out on a date. This is my chance!
- I smile and wave. Keep it fun and flirty, but don't push it.
- I pretend I don't see them. This is so awkward.
- Protect and teach me.
- Treat me as an equal.
- Do whatever I say!
- Gojo from Jujutsu Kaisen.
- Shuu Tsukiyama from Tokyo Ghoul.
- Giyu Tomioka from Demon Slayer.
- Johnny Joestar from Jojo's Bizarre Adventure.
- Romance, of course!
- Slice of life.
- Action and adventure.
- Sci-fi or fantasy.
- Sports.
- None of these.
- Traditional heaven scene.
- Majestic horse.
- Statue of David.
- Abstract painting.
- A huge bouquet of roses!
- A day where we get to do whatever I want.
- A puppy or kitten we get to raise together.
- Money. Lots of money.
- Big spoon.
- Little spoon.
- Both! We're switching.
- They can't take critique or advice.
- They're a pushover and do whatever they're told.
- They're too much like me, it's uncanny.
- They're nothing like me, and it's hard to connect.
- A wild rollercoaster that gets my heart pumping!
- Riding a beautiful, loyal horse. Powerful, but natural.
- A warm bath. Soothing and relaxed.
- Visiting a new country. Mysterious, but fun!
- 😈
- 🐶
- 🤠
- 🌶️
- ✨
- 🌻
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What are seme, uke, and seke roles?
In gay romance manga and anime, characters tend to fit one of two roles: semes and ukes. Technically, these words just describe who does what when things get steamy, but over time, they've evolved to have other connotations and meanings, and fans have also invented a third term, seke. Here's what your potential role means for you:
Seme
In romance anime and manga, the seme is often the character who is more dominant and who chases after the other. As a seme, you're confident, assertive, and determined. You know what you want, and you're not afraid to shoot your shot. You tend to take the lead in your relationships, setting the pace and the tone, while making sure your partner is comfortable and cared for. You're protective, nurturing, and devoted, and you'd move heaven and earth to make the ones you love happy.
Uke
In romance manga and anime, the uke is often the character who's more passive and who gets pursued by the love interest. As an uke, you're chill and low-key, preferring to sit back and let your partner do the romancing. After all, you're quite the catch! You might be a bit inexperienced or nervous sometimes, but that's natural, and you enjoy letting your seme, the dominant person in the relationship, take the reins and guide you. You're gentle, tender, and blossoming, and dream of the day a confident, assertive partner will whisk you away!
Seke
In romance anime and manga, a seme is often someone who takes charge, an uke is the one who gets pursued, and a seke is somewhere in between. As a seke, you're capable and versatile, ready to fill whatever role needs filling. You can step up and be bold when needed, or sit back and let someone else pamper and protect you, if it makes them feel good. You're keen, instinctual, and great at reading a vibe and rising to meet any moment. Your partners and loved ones can rely on you to come through, no matter the occasion.
Want to learn more?
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