Can People Trust Their Boyfriends Around You?

Take this quiz to see if you're a romantic threat!

In a perfect relationship, we'd expect our men to focus on one thing: us. But eyes start to wander, and we want to know if you're the person they're wandering to. Can we trust our boyfriends to be alone around you? Let's find out.

Answer a few simple questions, and we'll tell you if you're trouble!

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Questions Overview

1. When you want to look cute, how much skin do you show?
  1. Lots. If you got it, flaunt it!
  2. Some. But I'm tasteful with it.
  3. A bit. Gotta give 'em a peek here and there.
  4. Not much. I keep it covered.
2. What's your approach to makeup?
  1. I like to use a lot. It helps me feel like me!
  2. I like to go for a natural makeup look.
  3. I just use it for touchups and accents here and there.
  4. I don't really wear makeup.
3. What would you say is your best physical feature?
  1. My eyes
  2. My skin
  3. My physique
  4. My smile
  5. My hair
  6. My nose
4. Now what's the best part of your personality?
  1. My humor
  2. My intelligence
  3. My warmth and kindness
  4. My confidence
  5. My creativity
5. Do you think guys and girls can ever truly be "just friends"?
  1. Of course!
  2. Sure, but it's not always easy.
  3. Maybe, but I don't get my hopes up.
  4. Never. There's always something between them.
6. Are you much of a flirt?
  1. I flirt without even realizing it, honestly.
  2. I am! But it's often just for fun, I don't always mean it.
  3. Totally. I'll flirt with anyone I can.
  4. Sometimes, it depends on the person.
  5. Nah, not really.
7. Let's get real for a sec: If a guy cheats, whose fault is it?
  1. It's his. He made the decision.
  2. His partner's. They didn't do enough to keep him around.
  3. The person he cheats with. They shouldn't have tempted him.
  4. It's complicated.
8. Most of your friends are...
  1. Guys.
  2. Girls.
  3. An even-ish mix of guys and girls.
  4. It's complicated.
9. In general, your friends would say your vibes are...
  1. Adorable
  2. Laid-back
  3. Mature
  4. Mysterious
  5. Mischievous
  6. Intimidating
  7. Humble
10. We have to ask: Are you attracted to guys?
  1. Yep! Guilty.
  2. Sorta.
  3. Nah.
  4. It's complicated.

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Trusting Your Romantic Partner

This quiz is all fun and games, and in a real, trusting relationship, we wouldn't even be worried about our BFs, no matter how much of a knockout you are. But trust is a muscle you have to exercise, and that's why we talked to experts to show you pro tips on building that bond between you and your special someone:


  • Love coach Kate Dreyfus says it's all about "Practicing vulnerable intimacy in how you feel about them; move beyond the surface compliments and share with them why you like them on a deeper level... sharing pieces of your heart and feelings."[1]
  • Dating and relationship coach Christina Jay, NLP, says, "You can't really trust someone until you fully know them, so it's hard to demonstrate that on a first date. I think [that by] spending more and more time with each other, you get to see the true person's colors. And that will show you whether you can trust that person or not."[2]
  • Dating and relationship coach Donna Barnes warns, "If what he says doesn't keep consistent with what he has previously said. I wouldn't trust him. I think people who are trustworthy don't have to remember what they said because it's just what happened, right?"[3]
  • Licensed professional counselor Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC, says, "Trust is not a destination, trust is an active process we engage in... it's like an ongoing, like, piece of clay that you're molding with another person, it's not static, it's malleable, it's alive, you know, trust is a living process."[4]

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References

  1. ↑ Kate Dreyfus. Love Coach. Expert Interview
  2. ↑ Christina Jay, NLP. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
  3. ↑ Donna Barnes. Dating and Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
  4. ↑ Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC. Licensed Professional Counselor. Expert Interview