Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC

The Ultimate Guide to Keeping Your Husband Happy in the Bedroom

Keep him coming back for more with these enticing techniques Whether you've been married for 10 days or 10 years, sexual satisfaction is probably a pretty big part of your relationship. And if you want to do your part to...

How to

Know if Your Girlfriend Is Cheating on WhatsApp

Are you looking for signs that your girlfriend is cheating on you? If so, you're probably feeling not only frustrated, but also hurt and confused. If you think your girlfriend is using WhatsApp to chat or text with the p...

Why Your Husband Looks at Other Women Online

Plus, how to talk to him about it If you’ve stumbled upon your husband (or boyfriend) looking at photos of other women on social media or other popular online platforms, it’s reasonable to feel confused, upset, or ev...

How to Tell If Your Husband Is Having an Affair (& What to Do If He Is)

Catch a cheating spouse even if you don’t have proofCheating can be traumatic and difficult to deal with, especially in a marriage. How someone acts when they’re having an affair can vary from person to person and re...

How to Tell if You’re in Love

Expert insight into what love feels like So there’s someone in your life who makes you smile and gives you butterflies. But how can you tell if you’re genuinely falling for them or just enamored by a powerful crush? ...

9 Ways Cheaters React When Confronted & What They Mean

Plus, tips for talking about suspected infidelityIf you suspect that your partner is cheating, you’re undoubtedly in a tough spot. You're probably feeling betrayed and confused, and you could be considering confronting...

Why Does Your Girlfriend Call You Daddy? (Plus, How to Respond)

Discover why she calls you “daddy” & whether it’s a red flagIf your girlfriend has a habit of calling you “daddy,” you might be a little thrown off or confused. We’ve got good news for you, though. You can re...

12 Warning Signs You're Dating a Loser

As the red flags start to pop up, you may begin wondering if the person you’re dating is a loser. In this article, we’ll walk through every major issue you want to watch out for. Keep in mind though, a term like “l...

What to Do When Your Husband Doesn’t Want You: 11 Ways to Work Out Marital Problems

Not feeling wanted is painful, especially when the cold shoulder is coming from your husband. How are you supposed to cope with that kind of hurt? In this article we’ll walk you through what not being wanted means and ...

Signs Your Husband Isn’t in Love with You (And How to Handle It)

Expert advice on getting the love back in your relationshipDo you feel like your husband isn’t in love with you anymore? It’s normal for relationships to ebb and flow over time, but this gut-wrenching feeling can be...

How to

Get Your Husband to Notice You Sexually

With work, kids, and responsibilities, it’s natural for you and your husband’s sex life to take a bit of a hit over time. If you feel like you’re stuck in a rut and you want to get your husband’s eyes watching y...

How to Spot a Liar in a Relationship: 15 Ways to Tell

It can be hurtful to know you’re being lied to, but it’s almost more frustrating if you aren’t even sure if someone important in your life is being dishonest. Is it all in your head, or are you picking up on subtle...

How Concerned Should You Be If Your Boyfriend Still Talks to His Ex?

Signs it’s harmless and red flags to look out forSo your boyfriend is still in contact with his ex, you're wondering if it’s a harmless platonic relationship or a major red flag. You've come to the right place! We’...

A Sexless Marriage: When to Leave, Common Causes, and Fixes

A sexless marriage can take a toll on your relationship if it bothers you or your partner. You might feel alone, but it’s really common for couples to go through dry spells or to lose intimacy. You can rekindle your re...

Why You Might Have a Low Libido (And How to Talk to Your Husband about It)

What a lack of sex drive does to a marriage and how you can improve your relationshipIt can be confusing when your sex drive takes a dip, seemingly for no reason. One day you’re totally into your partner and all about ...

14 Signs Your Husband Is Falling out of Love With You

Identify issues in your marriage and learn how to fix them If you're beginning to wonder whether your partner's losing their feelings for you, that can feel so painful. Luckily, there are actually easy-to-spot red flags...

12 Possible Signs Someone Is Lying About Cheating

What to look for to catch a potential cheater Confronting someone about cheating is hard enough, but how do you know if they’re telling the truth? All relationships have issues from time to time, but being cheated on c...

How to

Be a Nicer Person to Your Spouse

Whether you've been married for 2 years or 20 years, you can always find ways to be nicer to your spouse. If you're going through a rough patch and want to be kinder or you're just looking for ways to improve your relati...

How Does Sex Affect a Relationship?

It's totally normal to wonder about sex and how it affects your relationships. If you're curious about this connection, you've come to the right place. In this article, we'll explain the role sex plays in both new and lo...

17 Signs Your Husband Isn’t Attracted to You Anymore & How to Cope With It

What to do to rekindle romance when your husband loses interest You suspect that your husband isn’t attracted to you anymore, but you just can’t figure out if you’re overthinking things. Is he actually acting diffe...