7 Signs a Gemini Girl Likes You

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If you've got a crush on a Gemini, you're probably attracted to their open, intuitive nature. As social butterflies who can talk to anyone, it can be hard to determine if a Gemini has romantic feelings for you or if they're just enjoying the conversation. Thankfully, there are a few key signs that can help you understand the difference. Read on to see if the Gemini girl you're crushing on likes you back.

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She wants to have deep discussions with you.

Do you frequently talk about politics, spirituality, or philosophy? Geminis often have many acquaintances that they know on a surface level. If a Gemini girl likes you, she'll want to talk about subjects that are more personal in nature.^{[1]
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Expert Interview} These include things like your favorite artists, the political opinions you hold, and even the philosophies that guide your life.^{[2]
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- Over text, this may look like receiving lengthy, thoughtful messages about profound subjects.^{[3]
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- To impress a Gemini woman, steer conversations in a deeper direction. Ask her about her point of view on art, politics, philosophy, and her many passions.
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She makes time for you in her schedule.

A Gemini is usually very busy. It means a lot if you're included in her plans. If she makes a date with you and follows through with it, that's an indicator she really values your company. Conversely, if you're having a hard time setting a date to hang out or she frequently cancels, she may not be interested or ready to commit.^{[4]
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- Once they know they like you, Geminis are usually very loyal. If you've already gone out a few times and she continues to make plans with you, that's a very good sign (no pun intended).
- To keep a Gemini woman's interest, try planning exciting, new things to do each time you see her. This will likely hold her interest more than doing the same thing each time.

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She opens up to you.

A Gemini doesn't reveal their innermost thoughts to everyone. It means a lot if the girl you're interested in starts to get more vulnerable with you. That may look like revealing her darker sense of humor, expressing her emotions more freely, or sharing her art with you. She may also ask you questions to encourage you to open up as well. ^{[5]
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- More vulnerable conversation topics include the two of you's dreams for the future, your feelings about the past, and your hopes for the world at large.

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You get her undivided attention.

Sometimes it's hard for a Gemini woman to focus on just 1 person. It's significant if a Gemini spends her time talking to just you at a party or stays invested in a text conversation. She may not be interested if you feel like you have to compete for her attention at social gatherings or don't always get a text back.^{[6]
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- If you're struggling to hold her attention, show her what makes you interesting. Show off your sense of humor, talk about your artistic passions, or share your ambitious plans for the future.

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Her body language is animated and expressive.

Notice how she speaks with her hands, especially. The sign of Gemini is ruled by the hands and arms. If the girl you like uses expressive hand gestures as she speaks to you, it's a sign that she's invested in the conversation.^{[7]
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- Relaxed, confident posture
- Direct eye contact

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She’s flirty with you.

A Gemini woman will likely express her infatuation in words. If she likes you, she may engage in witty text banter, bring up an inside joke with you at a party, or send you playful DMs when you're both online.^{[9]
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- To keep her interested, give her plenty of attention. Send her flirty texts back, laugh at her jokes, and be friendly and playful in your interactions when you run into each other.

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She's physically affectionate.

Geminis are known for being in touch with their body. When they're attracted to someone, they may express that through physical touch. Notice if the girl you like greets you with a hug, touches your arm during conversation, or even cuddles up next to you when you're watching a movie together.^{[11]
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- Though Gemini women may share some common characteristics, everyone is different. If she's not super touchy with you, it may mean that she needs to get to know you more or doesn't express her feelings that way.

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What's a female Gemini's personality like?

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Hi everyone, I'm a guy with a Gemini sun, but I've heard sign traits might differ between genders, and I'm curious if this is true. Any Gemini women out there (or people who know Gemini women) who can tell me about female Gemini personality traits, likes/dislikes, positive/negative qualities, and so on?

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Not always! Geminis are very indecisive—they can change their mind about lovers more often than they change their underwear.

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Give her a sense of freedom, constant amusement, and intellectual engagement. Without those things, it's easy for a Gemini to get disinterested.

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