What Is the "English or Spanish" Meme?

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Breaking down this popular meme and why it's actually pretty homophobic

Co-authored by Marcus Pruitt, BS Reviewed by Candace Gasper

Last Updated: February 10, 2025 Fact Checked

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• Meme Meaning & Origin
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• Why It's Problematic
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• Why do people think it's funny?
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• Meme Song
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• Final Thoughts
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Picture this. You’re doomscrolling on TikTok and come across a video with the caption “English or Spanish.” What exactly did you just watch? Don't worry—we're here to walk you through this new trending meme, including why it's problematic and offensive. Keep reading to learn everything you need to know about the "English or Spanish" meme.

English or Spanish Meme: Quick Overview

The English or Spanish meme started when a TikToker began asking strangers on video “English or Spanish,” then following up with “whoever moves first is gay.” People have turned the format of the original videos into a meme and started creating their own versions, often with men freezing and refusing to move, implying that they don’t want to be considered gay.

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What is the English or Spanish meme?

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   The English or Spanish meme is a trending meme format where men freeze in place to avoid being called gay. Confused? You're not alone. Basically, this all started when TikTok user @alfonsopinpon_ posted a compilation video in which he approached various men in a mall and asked them if they spoke English or Spanish, then followed that up with "Whoever moves first is gay." The men in the video would then often freeze in place so they wouldn't be called gay. Yes, that is actually how this whole thing started.

   • So how did this become a meme? Once the original videos gained traction, people copied the format (asking "English or Spanish" followed by saying "Whoever moves first is gay") and started making their own supposedly funny versions with friends. These videos often depict straight men freezing in awkward or uncomfortable positions for long periods of time so they're not perceived as being gay.
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Why the English or Spanish Meme is Actually Problematic

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   The meme implies that being gay is a bad thing. The whole point of the original videos and the memes that followed is that men will go to great lengths—like freezing awkwardly in place no matter what they're doing—to avoid being thought of as gay, because to them, being gay is bad, shameful, and embarrassing. Sure, some people are just joking and don't take it that seriously, but that doesn't mean the meme isn't harmful. It still promotes homophobia and suggests that gay men are less than.

   • Unfortunately, the English or Spanish meme is just more evidence that homophobia is still alive today and that more work needs to be done when it comes to the acceptance of the LGBTQ+ community.

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Why do people find the English or Spanish meme funny?

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   People think the meme is funny because of how far men will go to prove they're not gay. They find the men freezing in place to avoid being associated with queerness funny and relatable. Again, the crux of the joke is that being gay is bad or embarrassing, which is homophobic, even if it's just meant to be funny.
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English or Spanish Meme Song

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   “Static” by Steve Lacy is often used in compilations of the meme. On May 25, 2024, TikTok user @azavtu posted a video where they compiled videos of people freezing after being told “Whoever moves first is gay” with “Static” by Steve Lacy playing in the background. This went viral and sparked a trend where users post videos of themselves asking people “English or Spanish” while the song was playing.

   • On June 28, 2024, TikTok user @evanjarold posted a video using the song. While on a roller coaster, they asked a friend “English or Spanish” as the ride dropped.

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Final Thoughts

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   The English or Spanish meme is problematic despite its popularity. It may seem like an unserious, silly joke that isn't meant to hurt anyone's feelings, and of course not everyone participating in the meme has bad intentions. But that doesn't change the fact that the meme implies there's something wrong with being gay, which isn't cool! Nobody should be made to feel less than or like they should be ashamed of who they are, and even silly internet memes can promote harmful beliefs like homophobia. There are definitely better, funnier memes out there that don't rely on putting people down.
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