Birthday Message Generator

Create the perfect birthday message to make someone's day special

Co-authored by Caroline Heiderscheit

Last Updated: September 19, 2025 Fact Checked

Not sure what to say to wish someone a happy birthday? Whether it’s for a card, text, or social media post, this tool helps you craft a thoughtful, warm message based on your relationship and style. Answer a few quick questions and get a ready-to-use birthday message you can personalize or send as-is.

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How to Write a Great Birthday Message

Crafting a memorable birthday message can brighten someone's special day and strengthen your relationship. Whether you're sending a quick text, writing in a card, or posting on social media, here are some tips to make your message stand out:

Personalize your message. Including the recipient's name or a detail about your relationship makes the message feel thoughtful and genuine.
Match the tone. Consider the recipient's personality and your relationship when choosing between funny, formal, or heartfelt messages.
Keep it brief and sincere. A short, warm message often makes a bigger impact than a lengthy one.
Add a positive wish or hope. Ending your message with a kind wish for their year ahead leaves a happy note.
Avoid clichés unless they suit the person. Try to be original and specific rather than generic.