wikiHow Forums Relationships

What are the best "this or that" questions for couples?

03/17/26 4:34pm
Upvote
1
Share
View hidden comment
This post was sourced from submitted reader questions and posted by wikiHow Editorial Staff, based on our article: Funny, Deep & Flirty This or That Questions to Ask Your Partner.
wikiHow forums are moderated for quality. Learn more about our moderation policy here.
Annabelle Reyes
Annabelle Reyes
wikiHow Staff
03/17/26 4:37pm
Here are some of the best “this or that” questions for couples, including flirty, funny, and deep options to ask your date or partner:
  • Big spoon or little spoon?
  • Flirty texts or in-person flirting?
  • Fun date night out or chill date night in?
  • PDA or flirty moments in private?
  • Sarcastic flirting or sweet flirting?
  • Kissing or snuggling?
  • Slow burn or instant spark?
  • Couples massage or adventurous hike?
  • Be handcuffed together for a week or not see each other for a week?
  • Reveal your embarrassing pet names for each other publicly, or never be able to use them again?
  • Let your partner choose the restaurant, or let them choose the movie?
  • Switch closets for a month, or switch cars for a month?
  • Share a toothbrush or share a pillow?
  • Live together or have separate spaces?
  • Words of affirmation or quality time?
  • Low-key elopement or big wedding ceremony?
Upvote
Reply
Share
View hidden comment
Submit Answer

What’s on your mind? Ask anything.

Get advice and feedback from experts and wikiHow readers just like you.

Ask a Question

More Forum Discussions

Give me funny "this or that" questions!
Upvote
2
What are some fun/spicy questions to ask a girl?
I've gone out with this girl a few times and the next time we hang I want to come prepared with some fun and saucy get-to-know-you questions, just to heat things up a bit but still keep things fun/friendly/not cross the line too much. (Think "truth or dare" or "would you rather...") So, what are your favorite fun and spicy things to ask on a date?
Upvote · 77
16
What are some fun questions to ask your partner?
Upvote
2
What do I actually ask someone about on the first date?
Hi, so I haven't really gone on a ton of dates but the ones that I have gone on have kind of stalled while we're talking. I want to be able to make a really good impression, but I feel like I have nothing interesting to ask or talk about. Are there questions to ask someone to get to know them better that I'm missing out on? What about after all of those? Are there other fun or interesting things I could ask to keep the conversation going without it getting crazy awkward?
Upvote · 41
6
What are some deep questions I can ask my girlfriend?
I (26 M) have been dating a girl (27 F) for six months now. We’re pretty firmly planted in our relationship now and it’s beginning to feel like we know most of the typical stuff you’d want to know about another person. I’m starting to run out of really good or interesting questions to ask her to spark deep convos. Anyone have some interesting, romantic, or just generally deep questions I could ask to improve our connection?
Upvote · 44
6
What are the hardest "would you rather" questions?
Upvote · 1
4
Explore All Forum Posts