Jonathon Aslay

Dating and Relationship Coach

Jonathon Aslay is a dating and relationship coach based in Torrance, CA. With over 15 years of experience, Jonathon is a leading midlife dating coach and self-love advocate. After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay’s grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he realized that the relationship process reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love. He is the author of the book, "What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?", packed with fun, engaging spiritual and personal growth practices. Jonathon has also been featured on ABC, eHarmony, CBS Radio, NBC, and more.

Education

BA, Business, Loyola Marymount University

Professional Achievements

Jonathon's career began in the insurance field, and using the people skills during that period of his life, it molded him to help others achieve their goals and desires.

Favorite Piece of Advice

My favorite advice is a quote from Walt Disney, "keep moving forward," because even one inch in forward movement is one step closer to one's desires.

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How can I move on when my partner breaks up with me all of a sudden?

When your partner suddenly leaves you, your system goes into shock, and it’s totally normal to cycle through denial, anger, bargaining, and sadness. The loss hits hard because someone who was part of your daily life is suddenly gone. Eventually, you reach acceptance, and a great thing to remember is that if it's not right for one person, then it's not right for both people. Understanding this can help you loosen your grip and move forward. But moving on looks different for everyone. You have to find what works for you, and that starts with letting yourself feel those emotions instead of fighting them. Honor the hurt, give it space, and you’ll be able to step toward healing in your own time.

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How to Date an Older Woman as a Younger Man

Dating an older woman is exciting and you really want to impress her—but how? Older women may have experiences or expectations that you're not used to, so it's understandable if you’re a bit nervous. In this article,...

How to

Handle a Cheating Partner

Relationship coach Jonathon Aslay shares tips for dealing with a cheating partnerBeing cheated on is an awful feeling, but how you handle it can have a big part in your recovery process. Whether you try to rebuild the re...

12 Things to Consider Before Dating an Older Man

If you’ve been on the dating scene for a while, you may be getting tired of the immaturity of people your own age. Setting your sights on an older man might seem like a logical next step, but it’s important to weigh ...

205+ Silly “This or That” Questions for Friends, Coworkers & More

Plus, learn to play “this or that” with strangers & loved onesTrying to break the ice and spark a silly conversation? Asking “this or that” questions is one of the best ways to build closer bonds, whether you’r...

What Are the Stages of a Breakup?

Relationship coach Jonathon Aslay explains the main stages of going through a breakup Breakups are one of the most difficult but inescapable parts of life, and they can feel neverending when you’re in the middle of the...

How to

Attract a Recently Divorced Woman

Relationship coach Jonathon Aslay shares tips on how to date someone who’s recently been divorcedIf you’ve been harboring a crush for a woman and she’s suddenly available in the wake of a divorce, you may be wonder...

Dating a Younger Man: Everything You Need to Know

Is age just a number when it comes to love? Older men dating younger women is a pretty conventional stereotype—but younger men are in pretty high demand as well. Have you considered dating a guy 10, 15, or even 20 year...

Dating in Your 40s: 7 Must-Know Tips

Make the most of your dating life in your 40s and beyond The gossips say that the odds of a woman finding a man to marry over forty is akin to her chances of being struck by lightning. Men don't seem to have it so well e...

Dating Over 60: Expert Advice, Plus How to Avoid Common Mistakes

Follow these tips to find love later in life Almost half of all Americans over the age of 65 are divorced, separated, or widowed and find themselves looking for companionship. If that's you, then you've come to the right...

12 Tips for Dating a Divorced Man in His 40s

You're scrolling through a dating app when you see a man who seems perfect for you. Just one catch—he's divorced. But don't let that worry you too much. As you get older, it's much more likely that you'll encounter div...

Dating an Older Guy? Tips for Dating a Man 15 Years Older

If dating guys your own age hasn’t really worked out for you, you might be gravitating toward men a little (or a lot) older. Starting a relationship with someone 15 years your senior might sound like a crazy idea, but...

How to Fall in Love After 50

Find lasting romance when you're middle-aged Finding love at 50 may feel like it's a challenge, but it can be deeply rewarding with the right person. You may have had past relationships, or gone through a divorce, and n...

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