Ebony Eubanks, MSW, ACSW, CAMS-II

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Ebony Eubanks is a Therapist, and Founder and CEO of Peaceful Living Counseling and Professional Services of Philadelphia, PA and in Hockessin, DE. With over a decade of experience providing counseling and coaching to individuals, couples, and groups, she specializes in depression, anxiety, couples work, life guidance coaching, and anger management. Ebony holds a Master’s in Social Work from Temple University and is a member of the Academy of Certified Social Workers. She is a Certified Anger Management Specialist-II, Level II trained Gottman Couples Therapist. and Certified Gestalt Therapist. Ebony also holds additional certifications in Advanced Clinician Training.

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Unique gift ideas for your best friend

When you're thinking of good gift ideas for your best friend, try to remember anything they have mentioned wanting in the past weeks, or anything else they've had their eye on. Be mindful of things that they say because you can get them something you know they'll actually like.

What should I get my girlfriend for her birthday?

I might make a card, buy a card that's empty, or get a card personalized. And then I would write how I feel about her on the card. Some heartfelt words can mean a lot to your girlfriend.

You can also gift something that is a memory you shared together or something that's relevant to what resonates with your girlfriend. Try to find a more thought provoking emotional gift. You can do a painting, you can make a poem, or you could even make a collage of pictures. She'll appreciate something that allows her to reminisce about all the wonderful memories you've made together.

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How do you comfort a friend who lost a pet?

Above all, be available and support them. If you'd like, you could offer to do something hands-on to help remember their pet, like making a memorial or plaque. Whatever you do, treat the loss of a pet the same way you would treat the loss of a family member.

How do you ask to hang out without seeming desperate?

Focus on reconnecting with them. You might say something like: "Hey Billy, I was just thinking about you! I hope you're well—we haven't connected in a while, and I really miss talking to you. I wanted to know if you'd like to hang out at this date, or what your availability was."

How do you comfort a grieving friend who is far away?

Be available and supportive, and offer a listening ear whenever possible. Explain that you may not understand what they're going through, but you're there to support them. You could even send a care package to remind them that you're there for them.

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