How to Sexually Attract a Pisces Man: Top Tips to Win Him Over

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1 Show interest in his passions.

2 Show off your passion and creativity.

3 Speak gently and kindly.

4 Smile and be positive.

5 Compliment his looks.

6 Seduce him with eye contact.

7 Wear a spicy floral fragrance.

8 Make the first move.

9 Woo him with romantic gestures.

10 Give him space when he needs it.

11 Share your sexual fantasies.

12 Shower him with physical affection.

13 Tell him how you feel about him.

14 Be vocal when things get hot and heavy.

15 Invite him into the shower or tub with you.

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Last Updated: October 14, 2025 Fact Checked

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Pisces men are the hopeless romantics of the zodiac. They make wonderful lovers, but they need an emotional connection with you before they'll move things into the bedroom. In this article, we spoke with astrologers and dating coaches to tell you everything you need to know to get a fish to fall for you—hook, line, and sinker. We'll also give you the scoop on how to turn on a Pisces and what you can expect in bed with this dreamy water sign.

Attracting & Seducing a Pisces Man

According to astrologer Angel Eyedealism, Pisces men want a partner who is “sensitive, colorful, musical, [and] artistic.” You can attract a Pisces guy by asking him about his passions and showing him that you have creative hobbies, too. Be kind, gentle, and romantic, open up to him, and have a positive attitude.

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Show interest in his passions.

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   Acknowledging a Pisces man’s interests means the world to him. Pisces guys are super creative and curious, so they tend to have lots of interesting hobbies, passions, and dreams. The first step in seducing a Pisces man is showing him that you’re genuinely into all the things that make him him. If you ask to listen to the music he’s writing, tag along to the newest art show opening, and hear about his greatest hopes and desires, he’ll find you irresistible.

   • Participate in his hobbies, too. If he’s a big cook, tell him you want to try out a new recipe with him. Or, if he’s into hiking, tell him about a trail you both have to climb.

   Meet the wikiHow Experts

   Angel Eyedealism is a professional astrologer with nearly 30 years of astrology experience. She specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography.

   John Keegan is a dating coach, motivational speaker, and owner of The Awakened Lifestyle. He has over 15 years of experience helping people find love.

   Kalem Turner is a palmistry and astrology expert.
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Show off your passion and creativity.

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   Pisces guys are attracted to creative and sensitive souls. Because Pisces men are so in touch with their creative side, they want to know that you have hobbies, interests, and passions of your own. According to professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism, they want someone with a “sensitive, colorful, musical, [and] artistic” vibe who is “displaying their sensitivity and creativity in some way.” For instance, talk to them about the musicians you’re loving, the artists you’re inspired by, or the books you’re currently reading.

   • If you have any creative hobbies, invite your Pisces man to take a look at your work. For example, do a stand-up routine for him, ask him to critique your paintings, or read him a snippet of your newest poem.

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Speak gently and kindly.

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   Pisces are sensitive and easily hurt, so show him he has nothing to fear. Because of their sensitive natures, Pisces men can struggle with mood swings and self-esteem issues. They don’t like sarcastic remarks or being teased (even if it’s obvious you’re kidding). Always treat him gently and speak to him with kindness.

   • If you want to sexually attract a Pisces, this is your first priority. Pisces men are drawn to partners who truly understand their sensitive side.
   • Eyedealism agrees, saying Pisces is “all about vibes and instincts and feelings.” She explains that these guys want to know that “you are a compassionate person, that you're a sensitive person, that you try to relate to them.” If you’re aggressive or overbearing, he might just run the other way.
   • A Pisces man pays attention to how you treat other people, too. He'll be turned off immediately if you act rude or condescending to someone in front of him.
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Smile and be positive.

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   Pisces needs to feel safe and secure before sleeping with you. Since he experiences emotions so deeply, interacting with pessimists is exhausting for your Pisces. When you’re around him, says dating coach John Keegan, always look on the bright side of every situation. Give him your best "come hither" smile and keep the conversation lighthearted. Sex will never be in the cards if he’s feeling cynical or negative around you.

   • If you get stuck in traffic and miss your dinner reservation, just smile and say, "Oh well! Do you wanna get fast food and have a picnic in the park instead? It'll be a lot more private."
   • If you didn’t get tickets to your favorite musician’s show, say something like, "I'm sad the concert is sold out, but I'm more in the mood to snuggle anyway. Wanna go back to your place and see what's on Netflix?"

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Compliment his looks.

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   Boosting his ego can get a Pisces man in the mood. Men born under this sign appreciate kind words more than most people. Get a little flirty and compliment him on anything you’d like, as long as you’re not stroking his ego in a super obvious way, agrees Keegan. His smile, sense of style, personality, voice...he’ll love any compliment you give him. You might say something like:

   • "You look amazing in that shirt. It brings out the gold flecks in your eyes."
   • "I love your smile so much. Can I see it again?"
   • "You're such a stylish dresser. You look amazing every time I see you."
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Seduce him with eye contact.

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   The intimacy of that simple gesture will turn on a Pisces. Pisces can be a little shy, and eye contact doesn’t come naturally to them. They need the other person to take the lead and lock eyes with them first, says Keegan. If there's chemistry, you’ll experience a jolt of it immediately—and he will, too. He’ll be hooked after that.

   • If you catch your Pisces guy stealing glances at you, or if he locks eyes with you as soon as you walk into the room, he’s already crushing on you hard.

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Wear a spicy floral fragrance.

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   Pisces are very in touch with their sense of smell. On their lovers, Pisces men may prefer exotic flowers (think jasmine or iris) over fresh floral scents (like rose and geranium). And the spicy undertone is key to driving a Pisces man absolutely wild. Go with something classic like sandalwood, amber, or patchouli.

   • If you aren’t familiar with perfume notes, most fragrance brands list the main notes on the packaging. You can also look the information up online, or take our quiz to find out what your signature scent is
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Make the first move.

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   He’ll need a prompt from you before taking things to the bedroom. Yes, Pisces men can be a bit timid initially, but you won’t have to do anything drastic—a well-timed glance or leaning in to whisper “Take me home” is all this shy guy needs. You can also try:

   • Taking him by the hand and pulling him into your bedroom.
   • Giving him a soft kiss on the neck and ear.
   • Saying something cute like, “Why are we wearing so many clothes?!”

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Woo him with romantic gestures.

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   A little romance will get a Pisces man in the mood. Eyedealism explains that “a Pisces looks for romance” and they especially “love flowers, they love candlelight.” So, turn up the heat in your relationship by surprising your Pisces man with a bouquet of flowers, a love letter, and a date at an intimate restaurant. If he’s headed over to your place, light some candles, get out his favorite snacks, and put on a playlist you made just for him.

   • To completely understand how your Pisces man likes to be wooed, palmistry and astrology expert Kalem Turner says you need to look at his entire birth chart. In particular, his Venus placement, fifth house, and seventh house speak to how he wants to be loved.
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Give him space when he needs it.

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   Backing off only makes a Pisces man want you more. Turner says, “Pisces are the most emotional sign in the zodiac…but they're also the most elusive kind of energy.” If it seems like your guy is pulling away a little or not texting back as often, give him some time to himself to sort out his thoughts and feelings. When he sees that you’re not trying to chase him and instead are happy to do your own thing, he’ll find you even more attractive.

   • If you haven’t heard from him in a few days, it’s totally okay to reach out and see how he is. Just keep your conversation light and don’t pressure him to keep chatting or hang out.

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Share your sexual fantasies.

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   A Pisces guy wants to know you on a deep level before getting intimate. If you want to fast-track physical intimacy, open up to your man about your sexual thoughts, feelings, and dreams. Eyedealism agrees, saying, “Putting some imagination into lovemaking, putting imagination or creativity into the wooing process is what will engage them.” The romantic Pisces will be drawn to your willingness to share your inner world and sexual fantasies with him. You might say something like:

   • "I've always been fascinated by the idea of lucid dreaming. Care to meet me on the astral plane one night for a sexy romp?"
   • "So I've always been interested in trying a bit of role play in the bedroom. You game?"
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Shower him with physical affection.

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   Pisces crave positive reinforcement in the form of kisses and cuddles. Physical affection is very important to a Pisces, so don’t hold back in that department. Take every opportunity to pet him, touch his arm, smooch his cheek, hug, and cuddle up to him. That feeling of closeness will get him in the mood for some sexier affection behind closed doors.

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Tell him how you feel about him.

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   For a Pisces guy, hearing about your feelings is basically foreplay. Men born under this sign often won’t have sex with someone unless they have an emotional connection. If you’re looking to get frisky any time soon, you’ll need to start by showing him your naked emotions. Don't worry, he’ll probably be ready to see your naked body soon after! You might say:

   • "I feel an intense, spiritual connection with you. Do you feel it, too?"
   • "Getting to know you over the past few weeks has been one of the happiest times of my life. I feel so lucky to have met you."
   • "I think I’m falling in love with you, Max. I can’t imagine life without you."
   • "Not going to lie—you look hot tonight and I can't stop thinking about kissing you."
   

   Liz Greene, Astrologer and Psychologist

   To engage a Pisces man's heart, one must resonate with his soul, speak to his mind, and traverse emotions with grace. He seeks a partner to share innermost fantasies, spiritual inklings, and the language of dreams and reality. Authenticity and emotional intimacy are your most alluring attire in this mystical dance of love.
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Be vocal when things get hot and heavy.

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   Pisces men love to hear how turned on you are. If you aren’t comfortable with dirty talk, no problem (although he’ll certainly appreciate hearing that, too). Pretty much any sound that comes from you will drive him wild—low moans, gasps, and breathy kisses close to his ear (to name just a few).

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Invite him into the shower or tub with you.

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   As a water sign, your Pisces is very stimulated by wet environments. Being around water amplifies feelings and experiences for the fish of the zodiac. In this case, getting frisky in a shower or bathtub will supercharge your man's libido. If you're ready to see what your Pisces is really capable of, give this a try!
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Anyone have experience dating a Pisces man?

WikiElephantReader409

Had my first date with a Pisces guy a few days ago and I think we really hit it off but I've never dated a Pisces before and would love any tips/advice/insight about what it's like. Can you tell me what to expect or watch out for?

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Julia Topaz
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In general, Pisces men tend to be very soft, and they're very dreamy and romantic. One thing you should be careful about, though: just because they're romantic and soft, it doesn't mean that they actually want to enter a committed, long-term relationship. A lot of times, as much as a Pisces man loves the idea of love, they can spend time escaping, feeling like "I'm good on my own, I don't need to make a relationship into a material reality". So, my advice would be that Pisces men can be really soft and charming and sweet, but you should wait to jump in headfirst until you see concrete signs of commitment from them.

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I was married to Pisces for over 10 years until his passing (I'm a Capricorn). He was a big, buff biker, but all teddy bear once he let the tough exterior drop. Yes, very romantic! He would rather walk through a side lot of field and pick flowers for me than buy them! He enjoyed when I would praise him for his nature, or tell him exactly what I loved about him. But be sincere! Flattering him without honesty will pay him away; he will distrust you more. Do begin early by telling him one or two private things nobody else knows about you. If it's serious, he will feel like you're confidante and will open up quicker. But always maintain respect and loyalty, with honesty- sometimes the hard truth he'll appreciate more than if you sugarcoat it, as long as you use the correct soft tone of voice, and assure him that the truth is to help him, not harm him. My guy LOVED any little thing that showed I was thinking about him- a heart drawn on his napkin in his lunch bag, a few candies on his pillow if I went to bed early, smiley faces drawn on pancakes with chocolate chips, too! Home cooking and a real sense of maintaining our home really got kudos from him!
If you are intimate, be prepared to have your head completely blown off! But don't expect him to jump right in the sack with you. My guy had to be 100% that I was completely into him and totally loyal. Oh, yeah! This guy! He was my soulmate, my perfect match. We laughed all the time, danced to our music ('80's) in the grocery store aisles, sang at the top of our lungs when driving around. Our connection and commitment was palpable, and we were always being complimented on being such a far out couple!
My Pisces man was everything I dreamed of since I was a little girl- my Knight in shining armour who protected me and kept me safe, who played on his knees before bedtime, and rode a Harley and was completely covered in tattoos!!!
He WAS real. And although I was only gifted him from God for ten years, we lived reach day to the absolute maximum, always with each other, holding hands or my arm in his. He lived to kiss me, and just all his devotion made me want to do anything in the world just to see his smile and hear his laughter.
I can't think of a negative, except maybe don't be a nagger or try to win an argument based on emotional manipulation. My husband would walk out of the house. I knew he would come back, and would be loyal, but I would never know for how long he would be gone. And with him being in an MC, I always got a bit concerned. But Pisces are very trustworthy and honourable. He never needed a reason to keep a secret, and I knew everything about him. But he did have just one, and kept it for almost 3 1/2 years until after our 2nd anniversary ----- he had won a personal non-taxable, non-wage settlement with 9 zeros behind it and didn't know what to do with it!
We'd been living within our means, and he trusted me to find a good investment broker. We had an additional monthly draw from a percentage of the interest earned, and that was it. It allowed us to buy a more reliable vehicle, and go to the movies on the weekend. But grandkids started popping out, and Christmases were really a lot of fun!
You will never go wrong with a Pisces man, as long as you maintain your integrity and are always honest with him, show him how much you appreciate him, and remember how much he like to feel your hand touching him or lips kissing him. I miss my husband so terribly. I truly lost a huge piece of my heart and soul.

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