Does My Ex Miss Me?

Take this quiz to find out if they want to rekindle the romance!

Ending a relationship is never easy. After you've broken up, you might find yourself wondering: Does my ex still care about me? We're here to help you answer that question.

This short quiz will tell you whether your ex misses your company...and whether they might want to get back together! Hit "Start Quiz" to begin.

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Questions Overview

1. How much has your ex tried to contact you since you broke up?
  1. A lot!
  2. A little.
  3. Not much.
  4. Not at all.
2. Who ended the relationship?
  1. They did.
  2. I did.
  3. It was mutual.
3. How long were you together?
  1. Less than a few weeks.
  2. A few weeks to a few months.
  3. A few months to a year.
  4. Longer than a year.
4. How long has it been since you broke up?
  1. Less than a week.
  2. Between a week and a month.
  3. Between 1 and 6 months.
  4. More than 6 months.
5. Did you ever say "I love you"?
  1. Yes, we both did.
  2. They did, but I didn't.
  3. I did, but they didn't.
  4. We never did.
6. Why did the relationship end?
  1. We just weren't right together or wanted different things.
  2. They betrayed me in some way (e.g., cheating).
  3. I betrayed them in some way (e.g., cheating).
  4. Factors outside our control (e.g., they got a job in another state).
  5. Some other reason.
7. As far as you know, are they seeing anyone new?
  1. Yeah...
  2. They might be.
  3. No, I don't think so.
  4. I'm not sure.
8. Do they still flirt with you?
  1. No, never.
  2. Rarely, but it happens.
  3. Yes, occasionally.
  4. Yes, a lot!
9. Have you talked about getting back together?
  1. Nope.
  2. A little bit.
  3. Yes, we have.
10. Are you still friends?
  1. Yes, we managed to stay close.
  2. Yeah, but we're not close.
  3. Not really.
  4. Not at all.

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Should I get back together with my ex?

The eternal question! We asked relationship coach Michelle Jacoby what she thought, and according to her, "Sometimes a second chance can work."[1]

Jacoby stresses that it's sort of a case-by-case situation: "There's always a reason why you broke up in the first place. So, unless something's going to be significantly different, what's the point? But if you feel like something will be significantly different, then [it could be worth it]."[2]

If you want to give things another go, she adds, "Let [your ex] know how you feel." But, she cautions, don't just jump in blindly: "I'm a big believer in paying close attention to the reason why you broke up in the first place, because it's very easy to look back and just focus solely on the good things and forget all the hard things.... [Figure] out what the issues were in the relationship and [address] them in a way that's constructive.... You can't just sweep it under the rug and hope things are going to change. You have to make sure that they change in order to have a different outcome."[3]

References

  1. Michelle Jacoby. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
  2. Michelle Jacoby. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview
  3. Michelle Jacoby. Relationship Coach. Expert Interview