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QuestionWhat is the best way to deal with being called a racist?
Jessica Elliott, ACC, CECJessica Elliott is a Certified Executive Coach and multi-passionate entrepreneur. She's the founder of LIFETOX, where she hosts mindful experiences and retreats, and J Elliott Coaching, which she provides executive consulting for professionals, teams, and organizations. Jessica has had over fifteen years experience as an entrepreneur and over five years of executive coaching experience. She received her ACC (Associate Certified Coach) accreditation through the International Coaching Federation (ICF) and her CEC (Certified Executive Coach) accreditation through Royal Roads University.
Certified Executive CoachApproach the problem with a curious and compassionate mind. There may be valid points this person is trying to make, so stay calm and try to unpack the emotions and reason behind it. Keep an open mind and a kind heart. -
QuestionHow can I avoid getting defensive in this situation?Jessica Elliott, ACC, CECJessica Elliott is a Certified Executive Coach and multi-passionate entrepreneur. She's the founder of LIFETOX, where she hosts mindful experiences and retreats, and J Elliott Coaching, which she provides executive consulting for professionals, teams, and organizations. Jessica has had over fifteen years experience as an entrepreneur and over five years of executive coaching experience. She received her ACC (Associate Certified Coach) accreditation through the International Coaching Federation (ICF) and her CEC (Certified Executive Coach) accreditation through Royal Roads University.
Certified Executive CoachYou never know what this person may be going through to get to a point to accuse you. If you go into the conversation with curiosity, it gives room for both of you to explore, learn, and come to an understanding. -
QuestionHow can I effectively take responsibility and act against racism without falling into unproductive guilt or repeating past mistakes?
Luna RoseTop AnswererFocus on taking personal responsibility, acknowledging mistakes, and committing to improvement, rather than unproductive guilt. Educate yourself and promote equality actively to avoid repeating past errors and work proactively toward a more equitable society. -
QuestionWhat should I do if someone at school keeps calling me a racist, even though I've tried everything to stop them?
Luna RoseTop AnswererTalk to a school counselor about the issue and ask for advice. Re-evaluate your words and actions to ensure you haven't unknowingly said something offensive. Show goodwill and express your desire for a positive relationship with the other student. An adult might help identify why the accusations persist and offer guidance on resolving the situation.
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QuestionWhat should I do if someone makes a racist comment and then says it was just a joke, blaming me for being too sensitive?
Community AnswerYou can respond by saying, "It's racist whether you intended it as a joke or not, and I would appreciate it if you refrain from making such comments around me." -
QuestionWhy should I talk to someone who doesn't care that I apologized?
Kim GTop AnswererIf someone won't accept your apology and efforts to fix the situation, you are not obligated to continue trying to persuade them. It may be best to move on and have no further interaction with that person. -
QuestionIs it best to be humble and seek to make things right if I unintentionally make a racially insensitive remark?
Community AnswerYes, you should aim to rectify the situation. Offer a sincere apology for any unintentional offense or insensitive remark you made. If your apology is not accepted, it is best to respectfully disengage. -
QuestionWhat should I do if I believe someone calls me racist just to win a debate?
Galasy4969Top AnswererIf someone calls you racist during a debate to undermine your argument, calmly steer the conversation back to the topic and address the issue with facts and logic rather than engaging in personal attacks. -
QuestionI have a universal company policy requiring staff to accompany customers until payment is received. How should I respond if customers accuse us of racism for enforcing this policy?
Breathe JohnsonCommunity AnswerYou should calmly explain that this is a standard company policy applied equally to all customers, regardless of their background. -
QuestionAm I justified in being called racist for asking about a mixed-race child's appearance, and should I apologize?
Breathe JohnsonCommunity AnswerAsking a genuine question is not inherently racist, but your query might have caused offense. While you are not obligated to apologize, doing so can demonstrate respect and integrity.
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QuestionHow can I understand why my friend accused me of 'fetishizing' Black culture and then stopped communicating with me?
RawrtardCommunity AnswerInitiate a conversation with your friend. Ask them to clarify the accusation and explain your intentions to resolve any misunderstandings. -
QuestionAm I inherently superior to others because I am white?
RubyTop AnswererNo. No race is inherently superior to another, and all individuals deserve equal treatment.
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