Q&A for How to Have Sex Without Your Parents Knowing

Your boyfriend should stop if you tell him to stop. You need to be very clear about stopping him. Say, "Stop. I am not enjoying this" or, "No, stop, I want you to get off me". It feels like you are being bossy, but you have the right to stop him from hurting you.

Wearing two condoms is a very bad idea. The friction between the two can make them more likely to break or tear than wearing just one would.

You should tell your parent. It is never acceptable for someone to try to force you into a sexual act, and the person responsible needs to face the consequences.

If you do not want to have sex with him, do NOT have sex with him. If he forces you, inform your parents and the police. If he doesn't respect your boundaries this is a toxic relationship and you need to get out of it immediately to protect yourself.

Fight. Scream, bite them, kick, anything you can to get them off you. Then run out of the house and call the police.

If she doesn't want you to kiss her on the lips, then she is definitely not ready to have sex. Don't pressure her into it, and only have sex when you have her full consent.

You may hear a snap or feel the latex/rubber loosen. If not, the feeling might change.

If the boy has any semen on his finger, then the possibility exists. Otherwise, no, a girl cannot get pregnant from fingering.

Stop right away and inform them that you aren't ready to have sex without a condom. Remind them of the risks. If they insist, then stop having sex with them until they agree to leave the condom on.

Possibly. You begin ovulating before your period. If you haven't gotten your period, however, you are most likely way too young to have sex.

Then don't have sex in your room. Consult the article for alternate locations.

Try putting on a fake tattoo over the hickey. It might look silly but you can say you lost a bet. You can also try wearing a turtleneck or a scarf. Makeup never looks quite right, and can actually draw attention to it.

I'd say you are mature enough if you can protect yourself properly. Don't let anyone pressure you or do it just because 'everyone is'.

It depends on what you mean by "safe". Sex is never 100% safe, but if you are using birth control correctly, you are being as safe as possible.

Your partner being on birth control reduces these odds, but is still not 100% effective. Without a condom, you also run the risk of the transmission of STDs.

He probably feels that he should stop and you should respect that. You can ask why he stopped, but don't force him to do anything he is uncomfortable doing.

If you feel ready, make sure you are well-educated on all the risks and take proper precautions to avoid pregnancy and STDs. Be prepared for your relationship to change significantly, and not always for the best.

Your hand, your partner's mouth or hand, a toy specifically designed for pleasure, as long as you can't hurt yourself with it, you could use whatever.

You don't. They will find out soon enough and it's better to let them know as soon as possible so they can help you with obtaining pre-natal care or any decisions you have to make regarding your pregnancy.

You should promptly contact the girl's parents to discuss this serious matter. Have an open and honest conversation with your son to understand what happened and his knowledge about sexual health and consent. Use this opportunity to educate him about safe practices and the significant implications of his actions.

If you like her, I say go for it. If not, tell her you're not interested. Just make sure that you don't disrespect her boundaries.

Any girl who has started her period, regardless of age, is capable of becoming pregnant.

Yes, that probably means you are not ready. Don't rush into anything, and don't let your boyfriend pressure you into anything. You will most likely know when the time is right.

While your feelings are valid, emotional maturity and readiness to handle significant consequences, rather than 'deep love,' are crucial factors to consider. No contraception method is 100% effective, so you must be prepared for serious implications like pregnancy and the difficult conversations that would follow with your parents.

At age 10, your body and mind are not ready for sex or its potential consequences. You can explore masturbation if you feel ready, but it's best to focus on friendships rather than romantic relationships.

Having sexual intercourse is a very personal decision and should not be influenced by what other people are doing.

Many free clinics give condoms and birth control pills out for free, and if you're at least fourteen, then you don't need a parent's permission. Call first to make sure.

You may find helpful advice in the wikiHow article 'Ask Your Mom for a Bra'.

It's better to tell your parents, especially if you need help obtaining birth control. Remember that your parents already went through most everything you're experiencing, and they can help you make big decisions like whether or not you're ready for sex.