11 Ways a Scorpio Woman Acts When She Loves You

Professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism explains how to tell if a Scorpio woman loves you

Written by Angel Eyedealism | Edited by Devin McSween

Last Updated: December 3, 2025 Fact Checked

Scorpio women are passionate, creative, and magnetic...but they can also be tough to read. When they’re in love, they express their feelings in complex and subtle ways. While these mysterious water signs can take their time to warm up to you, once they’re committed, they’re amazing partners. If you want to know if your Scorpio crush or partner is in love with you, keep reading! We spoke to professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism and astrologer Aliza Kelly to learn all the signs that a Scorpio woman is in love.

All About the Scorpio Woman in Love

Professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism says a Scorpio woman in love is vulnerable and trusting—she’ll share secrets with you and show you her inner sensitivity. If a Scorpio woman is in love, she’ll also spend a lot of time with you, give you her attention, and be affectionate. She might act a little jealous, too!

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She prioritizes spending time with you.

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Scorpio women go “all-in” and they’re incredibly dedicated in love. According to Eyedealism, Scorpio is an all-or-nothing sign.^{[1]
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Expert Interview} These women show love by putting their partners first and sticking by their sides like glue. Your Scorpio woman will always make sure to set aside time to connect with you—whether that means planning a romantic evening or sending a cute goodnight text.
- Make your Scorpio feel like she’s a priority, too. Set aside a regular “date night” time and respond quickly whenever she reaches out.
- These signs take a while to warm up to their partner, and they need reassurance that you’re totally dependable.
- Eyedealism notes that Scorpios are “the most distrustful sign…so if they show anything that indicates trust in you, that means they are serious about you.”^{[2]
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Angel Eyedealism is a professional astrologer with nearly 30 years of astrology experience. She specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography.

Aliza Kelly is an astrologer and spiritual coach. Her expertise has been featured in The New York Times, The Drew Barrymore Show, CNN, and more.

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She gives you her full attention.

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Scorpios are incredibly focused people, especially around their partners. Eyedealism agrees that Scorpio gives their full attention to those they love.^{[3]
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Expert Interview} If you spend time with a Scorpio lover, she’ll make you feel like you two are in your own little world. Forget beeping notifications, background noise, and distractions. She’ll be totally dialed into you.^{[4]
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- Match her energy by leaving your phone on silent and making lots of eye contact when you two talk.
- Most of a Scorpio’s intensity comes from the fact that they’re ruled by Mars—the planet of action and passion.

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She stares at you lovingly.

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A Scorpio in love will turn her signature “Scorpio stare” into total doe eyes. Scorpios are known for their powerful eye contact, but once they’re smitten, their normally piercing stare will melt into a soft, caring gaze. Your Scorpio woman will look right into your eyes when you two talk. You might even catch her stealing quick glances from across the room.^{[5]
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- Scorpio women love intensity and passion. So, Eyedealism says to look a Scorpio woman straight in the eye when you communicate with her.^{[6]
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- Since Scorpios are naturally suspicious signs, it’s important for her to realize you’re never going to hide anything from her. To gain (and keep) her trust, Eyedealism says it’s important that you “be accountable, be upfront, [and] be solid.”^{[7]
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She’s physically affectionate.

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Scorpio women bring passion and heat into any romantic relationship. Because they’re ruled by Mars, they’re pretty physical people. A smitten scorpion will find every possible excuse to curl up next to you, touch you, and kiss you. In the bedroom, Scorpios are equally intense, but because they’re water signs, they crave emotional intimacy alongside physical intimacy, says Eyedealism.^{[8]
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- To love your Scorpio right back, flirt with her and think of ways to spice things up in the bedroom.
- You can be compatible with a Scorpio regardless of your sign as long as you communicate about what you like and don’t like (both in and out of the bedroom).
- Eyedealism explains that Scorpio is the “sign of sexualities,” noting that “if they're not sensing your sexual interest in them…they would lose interest.”^{[9]
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- Scorpios are highly sexually compatible with earth signs like Taurus and Capricorn. Earth signs provide the steadiness and emotional connection that water signs, like Scorpio, want during sex.
- Reader Poll: We asked 557 wikiHow readers if they think Scorpios are the most sexual zodiac sign, and 87% of them said yes. [Take Poll]

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She opens up to you.

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Scorpios get a bad rap for being “cold,” but they just need time. Kelly says, “Scorpios take time to build trust” because “it's not easy for them to open up and let someone in.”^{[10]
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Expert Interview} You’ll know a Scorpio woman loves you when she feels like she can be vulnerable with you. The second she starts to let you in on her hopes, dreams, and secrets during late-night chats or text convos, there’s no going back! To a Scorpio, sharing personal info is a huge sign of trust and love.
- Kelly adds that “Scorpios are a bit of a slow burn in terms of building intimacy and building honesty.” However, “once that is established, Scorpios are incredibly loyal and incredibly trustworthy.”^{[11]
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- Eyedealism explains that Scorpios “see secrets as powerful weapons,” which is “why they always want to find out your secrets, but they don't want to tell you their secrets.” So, “if the Scorpio reveals their secrets, then that means they're very serious about you because they have trusted you with their secrets.”^{[12]
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- Be accountable and upfront with your Scorpio woman about what you want from the relationship and who you are.
- She’ll open up to you faster (and even fall in love) if she thinks you’re trustworthy and solid, says Eyedealism. Scorpio can appear very tense at first, but she’ll relax once she fully trusts you.^{[13]
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She shows you she’s a secret softie.

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Scorpio women will shed their tough exterior around people they love. Remember, these dark and serious gals are also ruled by Pluto, the planet of mystery. That means they’ve got a lot going on underneath the surface, says Eyedealism.^{[14]
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Expert Interview} Deep down, Scorpio women are warm and deeply emotional, sensitive people. If you catch your Scorpio woman writing you poetic love notes or stealing your favorite hoodie, she’s head over heels in love.
- Eyedealism explains that a Scorpio’s vulnerability is a cherished prize, and “they like to keep their vulnerability to themselves.” So, if your Scorpio shows you her vulnerability and inner sensitivity, that means she really loves you.^{[15]
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- Try not to tease a Scorpio woman or make a big deal about moments where she’s revealing her softer side.
- Scorpio women are really sensitive, and your partner might pull away if she feels exposed or embarrassed.

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She listens to your advice.

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As fixed signs, Scorpio women won’t just take anyone’s advice. So, if the tenacious and stubborn Scorpio woman takes the time to listen to your input, it means she thinks you’re special. Look for moments when she changes her mind because of something you’ve said or makes a slightly out-of-character choice because of your guidance.
- Hold off on giving a Scorpio woman advice unless she asks for your input. These determined and creative people definitely like to solve problems themselves.

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She wants to know everything about you.

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Pluto’s influence means that Scorpio women value deep connection. On top of that, they’re detail-oriented people who go through everything with a fine-tooth comb, notes Eyedealism.^{[16]
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Expert Interview} A Scorpio woman in love will want to know the brand of coffee you like, the little pet peeves that make you frustrated, and the types of jokes that make you smile. Expect her to ask you lots of questions about your likes and dislikes.^{[17]
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- Answer her deep questions, but don’t expect her to answer them, too. A Scorpio woman will reveal her secrets on her own terms and at her own pace.
- Eyedealism notes that you can tell a Scorpio is in love with you if they show any interest in you. She says, “Scorpio is the sign of intimacy, because they like to lay bare…all things so that they can get inside.”^{[18]
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  Expert Interview} Surface-level and shallow definitely isn’t their style.
- Eyedealism adds that Scorpio loves a mystery. “If you provide a little bit of a mystery that they need to unravel, that will keep pulling on the yarn forever.” If you want to seduce her, Eyedealism suggests that you “leave a veil of mystery and then they will be intrigued and they will obsess over you.”^{[19]
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She cares about your goals and dreams.

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Scorpio women are natural cheerleaders. They bring their “all or nothing, do or die” attitude into everything they do—even supporting their partner, says Eyedealism.^{[20]
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Expert Interview} A Scorpio woman will show you how much she loves you by showing up to the important moments in your life. If you share your dreams with her, she’ll tell you that you can accomplish anything. In fact, she’ll probably jump into action to help you get started.^{[21]
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- Don’t be afraid to include a Scorpio woman in your future plans (whether that’s a holiday trip or concert tickets a few months away).
- These signs are committed, and she’s probably planning for the long haul anyway.

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She’s only got eyes for you.

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Scorpios don’t fall in love easily, but once they do, they’re 100% faithful. Your Scorpio lover won’t play games with you or mess around with your feelings. In return, she’ll expect you to do the same; be honest, communicative, and faithful, and you two will be a power couple.^{[22]
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- Reassure your Scorpio that you’re just as devoted as she is. Tell her there’s no one else like her, and you can’t imagine your life without her.
- Eyedealism adds that Scorpio is the “sign of obsession” and “they're looking to find someone to obsess over.”^{[23]
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- However, Eyedealism notes that they need to “see your loyalty [and] gauge your loyalty to them.” If you play too hard to get (or conversely, fawn over them too much), she says, “They're gonna freak out and they're gonna lose interest.”^{[24]
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She might get jealous.

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For Scorpios, love can teeter on possession, and they don’t like to share. If a Scorpio woman likes you, she might get suspicious if you start spending time with other women. Remember, some jealousy is normal, but if she makes you uncomfortable or starts telling you what you can and can’t do, it’s time to set boundaries.^{[25]
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- If your Scorpio woman seems jealous, talk to her about her concerns. Communicate how her behavior makes you feel and work together to come up with a solution.

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I went on a date with someone recently and they told me they were a Scorpio and idk if that's a red flag or not. I've heard that Scorpios are obsessive and difficult to be in a relationship with, is that facts or nah? I kinda wanna go on a second date but idk if I should so pls help

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