I'm attracted to non binary men.
So, if I'm attracted to non binary men and men as a female person, what sexuality am I?
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If you're into men and nonbinary people, the sexualities that you most likely align with are bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, or androsexual. People who are bisexual or polysexual are attracted to multiple genders, and you may associate with this since nonbinary people don't necessarily fit into traditional male or female identities. People who are pansexual are attracted to all genders no matter what they're assigned at birth, so it's more all-encompassing. People who are androsexual are attracted to men, males, or masculinity regardless of gender identity. If you're still not sure, try taking our sexuality quiz to find out what you best align with.
It's important to remember that someone who's nonbinary may not identify as either a man or a woman. While some people may use the label "nonbinary man" if they identify more masculine and are more fluid with their gender, using a binary gendered term may make others feel uncomfortable or dysphoric.
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It's important to remember that someone who's nonbinary may not identify as either a man or a woman. While some people may use the label "nonbinary man" if they identify more masculine and are more fluid with their gender, using a binary gendered term may make others feel uncomfortable or dysphoric.
I think it's challenging to try and tell someone what their label is, especially without knowing them; I think it's something for each person to figure out. You can also always start by using the umbrella term of "queer". I especially want young people to know you don't have to stick to a label. A label isn't something that's set in stone. So, if you do identify as bisexual or pansexual or gay, it doesn't mean that you necessarily have to be labeled like that for the rest of your life. You can start out with whatever label feels most comfortable to you. Down the line, if you want to change it or feel like that label no longer works for you, that's completely okay. Plus, if it does make you feel comfortable and safe being in the community, you can always identify as queer!
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"nonbinary men" ??? "AMAB enby" is more affirming i would think, but im a cis lesbian so what do i know
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If you’re looking for something more specific, you could explore microlabels like androsexual or almondsexual. There’s nothing wrong with being unlabeled, but if you do want a specific label for yourself, don’t be afraid to keep looking until you find something you like. And if you can’t find a term that fits, I see nothing wrong with making your own.
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"men as a female person" -? do you mean trans women??
it might be pansexual, or bisexual
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it might be pansexual, or bisexual
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