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Why don't I like kissing? Is it possible to not like kissing?

05/06/25 8:21pm
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Maya Diamond, MA
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05/06/25 8:37pm
It’s totally normal to not like kissing, so don't be afraid to set your own boundaries around it. It's okay if you want to wait until the second, third, or fourth date to kiss someone, and it’s also okay if you don't want to kiss them at all.
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05/06/25 8:22pm
It’s definitely possible to not like kissing. Everyone is different, and preferences about physical intimacy vary from person to person. There might be a specific reason behind your dislike of kissing, like a lack of attraction to the person, having a fear of intimacy, or being asexual, but this isn’t always the case. You might just like other forms of intimacy, such as snuggling, hugging, or having deep conversations, more than kissing. This is completely normal and nothing to be ashamed of—just make sure to communicate with your partner so you’re on the same page.
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