What are the best ways to impress a girl?
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One of the best ways to impress a girl you are interested in is finding out what she loves and what activities light her up inside. Once you find out what she loves, incorporate that in some sort of grand gesture and/or within a date. It demonstrates that you are paying attention to what she has shared with you and that you made a point to prioritize it because you know it will make her happy. This is a great approach to making a big impact and impression on the girl you like!
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If you’ve got a crush on a girl, but aren’t sure how to win her over, we’re here to help! This is what you can do to impress her:
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- Actively listen. Make eye contact with her, react to what she’s saying with your facial expressions, and ask her thoughtful follow-up questions to deepen the convo. This shows her that you’re paying attention and you care about what she’s saying!
- Show off your funny side. Humor is a major part of attraction, so it’s definitely a good sign if you can get her laughing! Pro tip: pay attention to the kinds of movies or shows she finds funny, so you can get a sense of her humor, and go from there.
- Be polite and respectful. Show up on time, be present and put away your phone when you’re talking, and always treat her with kindness.
- Do thoughtful gestures. Surprise her with a coffee from her favorite coffee shop, or with a copy of that book she’s been dying to read. These kinds of thoughtful acts show her that you’ve been paying attention, which will totally impress her.
- Present your best self. Wear something you feel comfortable in, take some time to style your hair in a way you like, and practice good hygiene and grooming. These things may seem small, but they go a long way!
- Talk about your passions. Tell her about your hobbies and interests, and ask about hers, too. This is a great way to show her what makes you unique, and to get to know each other better!
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