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I like a girl but I don't know if she likes me.

WikiLemmingCatcher246
WikiLemmingCatcher246
08/14/25 4:38pm
So there's this girl and we played softball together and she's been my best friend and I started liking her since the beginning. But the problem is she's been giving me hints that she likes me but then I don't know she does. I need help knowing any suggestions or ideas how to see?.......
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Sixu Chen
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10/17/25 11:14pm
There are multiple options depending on how bold you want to be! You can just confess your feelings and say, "I'm really interested in more than friendship. I want you to be my girlfriend." That's an option. If you aren't feeling as bold, try hinting with body language, like gently caressing her hair, or start to show romantic gestures and see how the other person responds. If she just pulls away, then you know that she doesn't like you, but if she accepts it, then you know she likes you.
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WikiGiraffeSlinger566
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08/18/25 1:35am
Just ask her
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