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How do I ask out this girl that I like when I'm a girl?

Glorybringer2014
Glorybringer2014
07/24/25 4:48pm
I wanted to know how to ask out one of my friends but she's a girl and I'm a girl and it's really hard. Can someone give me some tips?
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That_one_trans_kid
That_one_trans_kid
11/13/25 4:37am
if you know her well, and have her number I would ask to go to like a park or something, (especially if your parents are homophobic) a park is a low scale, low stakes place where y'all can just chill and have a good time and talk and stuff.
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KiwiFruit
KiwiFruit
10/10/25 10:58pm
If you don't know whether she's into girls too you can always start with that, see how she feels and then if she is you can try to ask her out.
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