any tips on how to kindly get him to go away?

Diddybop420
11/14/25 5:36pm
so i was talking to a guy who liked me, and even though i was VERY upfront about not liking me, he kept trying to push his luck and eventually tried to uh kiss me. any tips on how to kindly get him to go away?
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Ayushi Mathur
Ayushi Mathur
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12/12/25 3:25am
It's very important to be clear with him because if you aren’t, he might continue bothering you. Saying no to somebody does not mean that you have to be rude or unkind. You can continue to be kind to him and let him know that you're not rejecting him as a person because he has flaws or faults. You just don't feel that you are compatible, and you're looking for something else in life right now. This way, you gently let him down without making it too personal or being too harsh. You can also just say, "No, thank you."
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That_one_trans_kid
11/15/25 5:19pm
Ignore him, block him on all social media, tell him to politely f off, and just overall pretend like he doesn't exist until he gets the memo
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